dance bars in navi mumbai

pornmaker said:

Hello Everyone.. This is not a FR but hope my friends will still read it.. Well as you can see iam a old member on this site but always been a passive reader as i was too tied up wid my work n life.. I wasnt around for a long time.. But life screws everyone and so did it screw me too again as i had cancer last year and had to undergo surgery... well life has started to get a bit normall... purpose of this post u guys might wonder? well though i been wid indies never been to a sb ... and in all these months of me getting back to normalcy.. post of you guys have kept me excited many a days... so here iam thankin everyone who take their time to write frs.. as it was keepin a dyin man still interested in life... thanks bhai log

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Bro good to hear that you are on your path to recovery......cheers to your health!!!!

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funesc said:

Which dance bar is open these days beyond 12

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Try Dreams Bar

FR of this week...

Enjoying Sneha SB on Thursday and Sai Darbar SB & DB yesterday.

I don't want to write repetitive details on my SB visits as i think I am getting bored of SB now. I need pampering and need to do grouping and i visit when i get a chance. However, when i go out, i feel i haven't seated the girls i wanted. It didn't go as per plan. As girls take control as to who is going to sit. I do say no sometimes withough caring if they feel bad. Howeever, other times saying yes is obvious. Sometimes it is a combination of human behaviour, their financial needs for which i feel empathetic, the regulars give good service and some meaningful and some naughty chats and so on.

In Sneha, the waiters & coatwalas disturb a lot. In Sai Darbar SB, there is more privacy and more grouping possible than Sneha. However, in both places i felt that i need to reduce the frequency as i am known face there and the girls control my choices rather than the other way round. So loosing on VFM here.


I found Sai Darbar DB also a good option. It is fun between 9 to 10. The bewdi bangalan - my Sai Darbar verson () about whom i mentioned in my last FR is good GFE and especislly after that incidence when she was drunk. She called a few times after that incidence and didn't go to office for a few days. I encouraged her to forget & go to office. She has a bengali friend and both don't miss me when I am in am Sai Darbar. Now she said she is not going overboard as far drinking is concerned. She is not a very good dancer though. A few more 6-7/10 there.

Yesterday also went to Bhoir SB to meet my so called regular who showered pampering on me like i meet my spouse in sasural after a gap...

I went to a DB in Shiravane starting with Sai (i thitk Sai nath) at 8:30pm. Okish girls, dances going on. Bar full with Saturday crowd. I just grazed had beer & left. No girl was free to seat as all keen on dancing as waiter told me when asked.

While driving back to home. I was listening to my favourite Kishore Kumar songs. Suddenly a song that i was listening to gave a different meaning from perspective of mongering and DB & SB & 0B girls. Here it is:

नखरेवाली-३
देखने में देख लो हैं कैसी भोली भाली
अजनबी ये छोरियां, दिल पे डाले डोरियाँ
मन की काली
वो तो कोई और थी जो आँखों से, समा गयी दिल में

बेरहम
बेवफा
अपना कुछ अता पता बता तो दे (बेरहम)
बेकली
बेकसी
कुछ तो कम हो, फ़िर से मुस्कुरा तो दे (बेरहम)
वो तो कोई और...

Really can't gauge the mind of these Jaanu Babu girls. They make you think we are someone special for them and want us to treat them as our specials. I am seriously thinking of reducing this SB & DB mongeting to half. Or diverting to other SBs & DBs before next visit to these regular places. This is addiction and this song came as a wake up call for me. (Sometimes I wonder at myself that I am drinking beer on Sankashti Chaturthi fast day yesterday which i used to follow at some point of time!) Let me see how my efforts come off.

Happy mongering!





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Anyone any plans for sb visit today?

Saturday night FR

A classic tale of Sunk Cost bias in real life

I believe that when a guy steps out to monger, he seeks that one performance or that one kiss or that one moment which makes it worthwhile the money,time and risk... Not satisfied with one place/girl, he keeps seeking that one moment in different places and girls, at times one after the other... The mind doesnt want to head back home until you get that kick and every place you spend some money on, makes your mind crave that kick even more... You believe that you have spent X amount and now you deserve a better time, you are ready to spend Y more on the second place, Z more on the third and so on until you realize k bhai aaj tera nahi honewala... This is what happened to me yesterday might now try to restrict myself to only one place...

After a forced exile of 2 weeks from the mongering scene, stepped out early in the evening to fulfill my quota of lust and romance...

Being bored of regular visits to Ramesh (Turbhe), wanted to explore something new and remembered that an old muse from Mayur had invited me to Vikas earlier... Thanks to MK bhai's advice, my expectations were at rock bottom level and the place could only surprise me positively from that levels... Walked in at 5:45 and found the place to be lively with decent ambience except for the jam packed tables... Walked straight into the inner room on the ground floor, ordered a beer and eyed some girls... Would rate them between 6 to 8 on 10... Found a gorgeous Bengali milf with sizable melons and asked her to join... GFE and groping was on the menu (i avoid dfks for safety)... Was just starting to get my cup of lust filled when received a video call from my muse in Ramesh and boy oh boy she looked stunning... Had to listen to the heart and left for Ramesh without much action in Vikas. Will definitely visit again as the collection seemed to be pretty vast and I guess early birds do get the worms here...

Next stop was Ramesh... Nothing much to mention here as it was the same old flirting, kissing, biting and groping... There was a group sitting opposite to our table and I guess my girl and the ones over there were having a competition on who turns on her customer better... Well, the monkeys literally benefitted from the catfight... Was glad that my quota of romance was overfilled when I left the place at 9ish... ended up paying her more than usual... I guess I might be slipping a little here but let's see kab chutya katega finally...

After already spending more than what I intended to and being down by 4 beers, lust was rearing its ugly head... Literally stood on the road for 5 minutes contemplating whether I should head home or to Belapur...
A mind full of lust said - you have spent money but got only half of what you wanted, spend some more and satisfy me too... Lust won and off I went to Belapur...

Entered Star City at about 10 30... It was shocking to see that the scene was pretty damp... Muskaan wasnt on the stage and the charm.of the place was missing... Ordered a beer and watched a couple of performances... Knew the place could not give me what I wanted but well beer mangwaya tha to paisa bhi wahi udayenge ( a typical sunk cost bias one experiences in stock markets and poker)... Saw an NE chick for the first time in an Ob, invited her to dance, she tried her best but could not please the monkey... Realized there was no point spending time here so paid the bill and headed to Icon expecting some miraculous performance that could make the time and money spent worthwhile...

Icon - one of the best OB setups I have ever seen in my life and I have spent 75% of my mongering hours in Obs, so take that from me... An elevated stage with perfect spotlights, a spacious dance floor that allows ample space for all the girls to dance at once and all the seats had a decent view of the stage i guess... Would rate it as the best Ob setup on the Happy street... The girls were young, mostly under 25 from theit appearance and charming... The only negative was a big screen right behind the stage where the fuckers where playing Eng Sl match... Now who the fuck wants sri lankan players.distracting you when a damsel s shaking her belly on Ya Habibi...

Eyed an Aarti Chhabria lookalike and flirted from.the distance for a while, invited her to dance after a while and all she could do was sway her hair from side to side... That is when I realized, today the stars werent in my favor no matter the amount of money I would shower...

With a disappointed heart, headed back home after damages north of 20K - atleast understood why a man should quit it early in a bet and not let the sunk cost bias get a grip over your judgement!!

Lets hope this lesson helps in future...

Overall ratings (of the place and not my experience there)

Vikas - 7
Ramesh - 7
Star city - 8
Icon - 9

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@TyrionLannister
Check pm for an earful.. .

Waiting eagerly, Sir...

Didnt receive anything in the PM yet!!

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@TyrionLannister
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Dear All my mongers bro and Bhai log,

As a senior member I helped many people and one period of time I was in top three list in forum for most likes received by me but in education life I never been in top three list..

However here is biggest news is that, this is my time to retire from this forum and explore beautiful Life ahead to save hard earned money and valued career time which are lost in mongering life currently due to tempting FR's here and many availability options while visiting indies, MP, DB, SB, OB, NL, CH, SP's Call Girls etc... and at the end of day nothing in hand...

So 31st October is my last day in this forum and I will miss you all talented and great people here and I am really sorry if any inconveniences caused to you because of me.
Thanks a lot to all for your support during my mongering period over here and i wish you to have a wonderful life ahead!!
Most important is to take care and bye bye .

Yours true monger,
Nav..

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Most important is to take care and bye bye .

Yours true monger,
Nav..



Hello Nav Bhai, you will be missed here, more so in Independents forum! While I sympathise with your decision and the reason behind it, as I went through similar situation first in 2001 and later in 2011. As you could see, I was not able to completely be off the mongering as I kept going back and forth. In 2001 I took the drastic step of moving cities as SB/ DB were consuming nearly all of my salary. I was bachelor then, so did not hurt much, but once I started accruing lot of debt on card and lost control, one of my dear friend urged me to move city to get off it. He even found me a decent job so that I could move down south.
After clearing all debt, got married and settled nicely. But as they say, once a monger always a monger! Changed job in 2008 and this job allowed me frequent travel to Mumbai and I always ensured to stay over the weekend to have bar fun. Age had matured me (or so I think!) and I had better control of finances this time. However, I started realising that for work that juniors can do, I was travelling for it so that I could spend in bars! So in 2011 took another decision to keep off and avoided travel completely.
I turned 45 in 2015 and to celebrate that one of my old Mumbai friends organised a bar hop party and it started again!

I now follow the principle that uncle Sam explained in detail in one of his posts last year. I now ensure that 15% of my salary is moved to a separate account and when I come to mumbai I only use debit card of this account. I leave all my other cards back home. Trust me, this has saved me lakhs in last couple of years ! Also, these days I don't monger alone and go only with MK when I am in Navi Mumbai. Again this has saved me a ton! I know this is not an option for everyone, but I am lucky!! I do go on my own to DBs in Chembur but stopped throwing money and just hand it over to the girls. This also resulted in less spend.

Please don't take this as advice as you have much more experience. All I am requesting is, don't stop having fun !!

Regards
Basu


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Nav1983 said:

Dear All my mongers bro and Bhai log,

As a senior member I helped many people and one period of time I was in top three list in forum for most likes received by me but in education life I never been in top three list..

However here is biggest news is that, this is my time to retire from this forum and explore beautiful Life ahead to save hard earned money and valued career time which are lost in mongering life currently due to tempting FR's here and many availability options while visiting indies, MP, DB, SB, OB, NL, CH, SP's Call Girls etc... and at the end of day nothing in hand...

So 31st October is my last day in this forum and I will miss you all talented and great people here and I am really sorry if any inconveniences caused to you because of me.
Thanks a lot to all for your support during my mongering period over here and i wish you to have a wonderful life ahead!!
Most important is to take care and bye bye .

Yours true monger,
Nav..

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1 ) squadran bro.
2 ) Nav 1983
3)

Thinking who's next........
Koi aage Nahi aaya to mujhe apna hi naam mantion karna padega

Just kidding no hard feelings bro.

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TyrionLannister69, nav1983 & basu1970, i am able to so strongly relate to your posts. Thanks for sharing your views and experinces. They help!

May be my feelings are similar. I look for something and i don't get it. And look for more, different experiences. However, still that one ideal experince is illusive and thus mongering continues. This becomes addiction and it hits pocket starts hitting it at some point. Still the illusion continues as mongering continues. It's mirage for which run.

As they say, there is nothing perfect in life. No one is perfect. I think the best way is to thank for what we have and get, and things will fall in place.

Again, thanks for your posts!

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Nav1983 said:

Dear All my mongers bro and Bhai log,

As a senior member I helped many people and one period of time I was in top three list in forum for most likes received by me but in education life I never been in top three list..

However here is biggest news is that, this is my time to retire from this forum and explore beautiful Life ahead to save hard earned money and valued career time which are lost in mongering life currently due to tempting FR's here and many availability options while visiting indies, MP, DB, SB, OB, NL, CH, SP's Call Girls etc... and at the end of day nothing in hand...

So 31st October is my last day in this forum and I will miss you all talented and great people here and I am really sorry if any inconveniences caused to you because of me.
Thanks a lot to all for your support during my mongering period over here and i wish you to have a wonderful life ahead!!
Most important is to take care and bye bye

.

Yours true monger,
Nav..

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Nav.. bhai
"Never say never again"

This forum is not only a place to share sex escapades but a place where u meet genuine unpretentious people. Leaving bars and the commercial girls to settle down in life is always appreciated. But do keep in touch and at least contribute whenever and wherever you have some fun.
I don't know about others, but personally I can say that the forum is always a place which cheers you up when the cards are not in your favour. I haven't met all the people out here but MK (whom i know personally), Anglo and Uncle Sam through their attitude FRs and subtle anecdotes always keep your spirits up.

I too have cut down on dbs. But occasional flings are always entertaining and Destressing

Nav1983 said:

Dear All my mongers bro and Bhai log,

As a senior member I helped many people and one period of time I was in top three list in forum for most likes received by me but in education life I never been in top three list..

However here is biggest news is that, this is my time to retire from this forum and explore beautiful Life ahead to save hard earned money and valued career time which are lost in mongering life currently due to tempting FR's here and many availability options while visiting indies, MP, DB, SB, OB, NL, CH, SP's Call Girls etc... and at the end of day nothing in hand...

So 31st October is my last day in this forum and I will miss you all talented and great people here and I am really sorry if any inconveniences caused to you because of me.
Thanks a lot to all for your support during my mongering period over here and i wish you to have a wonderful life ahead!!
Most important is to take care and bye bye .

Yours true monger,
Nav..

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Well decision Bhai.
Ek bar Sher ko admi ke khon ka test laga to work dusra koi khata nahi.
Mongering brain capture karti hai.
Bahot log barbad huwe hai aur aj bhi ho rahe hai.
Jab Tak Paisa hai ladki bhi janu kahegi paise khatam sab khatam.
Agar koi bhi barbadi ke kagar pe hai to mongering ko bye karo.
Ye nasha aise hi nahi jata........
Drug se bhi bhayanak hai.

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Life is all about how u balance everything..
From balancing relations to balancing finances.. .
But though some people have mastered the knack of balancing,some have been total ignorant about it. .
"Life is not about doing good or bad deeds,but its about knowing the consequence of ur actions". ..
I have met scores of people in my mongering journey, hundreds of bar girls, innumerable waiters, stewards etc. .. and everyone has their story to tell. ..
I met people who were obsessed with boobs, busts and also met people who patroned a hapless bar worker..
In the initial years, more than fifty percent of my salary would be blown in bar escapades. .. I also met an IITian in Deepika who was besotted by a fair tall girl who was playing with this guys emotions, and ultimately guy ending his life for her. ..
Also met a gaonwala who would keep on boasting about the number of girls he laid..
But i never felt like quitting mongering, eventhough at one point of time i started feeling nausiatic of visiting dbs, obs after overdoing the visits. ..
I realised one thing, that whenever i resolved to quit mongering from the next day, i would bump into a very interesting bar girl, for whom i would drop my resolve to next month and by next month, she made sure i forgot my resolve.
It happened atleast seven eight times..
The last time it was Shabnam who i met in erstwhile Mela at turbhe naka. .. And she was so gorgeous that i threw my resolve to a nearby pond. .. But after meeting her for over a month, she told me she doesnt go out on entry. .
It was a KLPD but i decided to be Lage raho munna bhai kind. ..
Then she moved to bar near sai pooja in shiravne and i used to visit her once a week. After almost three years of chase, sour grapes turned sweet for me.
It was her bf who ditched her, and i offered my shoulder to console her...
Then after a blissful year with her, i started again getting bored with her company.. and started contemplating to quit mongering...
Its this time i started exploring dombivli,kalyan, ulhasnagar belt with my office buddy and felt i need to postpone my resolve to quit mongering after i taste some very ripe melons in this belt.
So, after reading Nav bros last FR, all my unfulfilled resolves revolved around my memory and felt like penning down here. .
I wish you best luck for ur resolve, Nav bro... I know, u have stronger resolve than my brittle resolves and may you succeed totally in ur resolution. .. I know for sure, u will keep visiting this interesting forum though u will never venture into dbs, sbs, obs again..
Take care.. .

Returning from Sneha to home.
Sat with seema again. Had as usual fun with her.
but it went to next level when Sneha's ground turned into Kishore like atmosphere. played those songs again, " aai tuza deul ", " bandook chalegi" & "daru badnam ". Three mongers were dancing with their dassis fir atleast 30 minutes. I wanted to dance but didn't do much as Seema was uncomfortable in dancing. Kumkum was main attraction. Stood up & saw outside 2-3 girls were dancing there too. The guy who sat with her he called & chatted with me outside for 15 minutes & we left.


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What lovely post all around...

As mushik rightly said this forum is not only about mongering.

Pornmaker Bhai....tum jeeyo hazaaron saal, saal ke din ho 50 hazaar...Dil se Dua. If this forum is your tonic...keep visiting....keep living life king-size.

Nav83 Bhai...Zindagi bahut lambi hai...it takes a strong will to resist this world of lust. Be strong for now but be back when you are ready again and still want to be back here....and I know you will be back with everything else sorted in life..Amen

Basu da and mk bade bhai...you both told the story of many a mongers...I too started serious mongering in 2003 as a 23 year old in dubai...first with chics there...thai, morocin, russian, philipino and what not...took the first break when back in Mumbai... then started the spas, the indes, the en ells and cee ehs then the marriage break. Then back to it in a couple of years..was a db/sb virgin till last September...but the glamour, the sleaze and above all the opportunity to shake a leg has got me skewed as a db monger.

Koi wapas aane ki soch raha hai...
Koi jaane ke baat Kar raha hai...
Koi rukh rukh Kar chalna seekha raha hai...
Baaki sab lage hai...lage raho.

Anglo.


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I don't know whether Nav bhai will quit mongering or will reduce visits but don't leave the forum. Be in touch, guide junior mongers like me. Guidance may not be related to mongering but should be related to life. I have red almost most of the posts & FRs & this is the forum where people do discuss/ guide others on life apart from mongering & share their experiences.

Cheers !

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solomonk41 said:

Well decision Bhai.
Ek bar Sher ko admi ke khon ka test laga to work dusra koi khata nahi.
Mongering brain capture karti hai.
Bahot log barbad huwe hai aur aj bhi ho rahe hai.
Jab Tak Paisa hai ladki bhi janu kahegi paise khatam sab khatam.
Agar koi bhi barbadi ke kagar pe hai to mongering ko bye karo.
Ye nasha aise hi nahi jata........
Drug se bhi bhayanak hai.

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Yes Bhai fully agree with you and due to addiction from last 12 years when I got bachelor's degree and job then later break up with my girlfriend with her i was very serious and wanted to marry but nothing was in my destiny.
So i have lost lakhs of rupees in 12 years mongering life but still no satisfaction so better to control my jhony doing aapna haath jaganath... savings my hard earned money as all times I was busy in forum and only in mind is to FS and FS.. so for my good being iam taking bye bye permanently for mongering eventhough iam alone and divorced person currently as no girlfriend and no wife, with struggling life to get wife but difficult for second marriage ....
thanks!!

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Nav bhai,

Mongering is a desire..and a desire can never be satisfied.
Desires can only be controlled.

However, i really appreciate your will to give up and focus on other aspects of personal life.

Good Luck !




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Nav1983 said:

Dear All my mongers bro and Bhai log,

As a senior member I helped many people and one period of time I was in top three list in forum for most likes received by me but in education life I never been in top three list..

However here is biggest news is that, this is my time to retire from this forum and explore beautiful Life ahead to save hard earned money and valued career time which are lost in mongering life currently due to tempting FR's here and many availability options while visiting indies, MP, DB, SB, OB, NL, CH, SP's Call Girls etc... and at the end of day nothing in hand...

So 31st October is my last day in this forum and I will miss you all talented and great people here and I am really sorry if any inconveniences caused to you because of me.
Thanks a lot to all for your support during my mongering period over here and i wish you to have a wonderful life ahead!!
Most important is to take care and bye bye .

Yours true monger,
Nav..

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