Do You Feel Bad For Lost Innocence?

Its ok to develop some feelings with a regular but when it happens, take a break from her and see other lovelies
out there. This is how you meet other potential regulars. You can't just see one girl.
I don't think he should have quit the hobby.

Everyone has their own coping mechanism and pain threshold. LI needs to do what’s right for him without 3rd party critics. He should have just dissappeared quietly and not make some fanfare announcement. He had an emotional connection addiction vs sex and needed to hit an emotional painful bottom. He was “deeply emotionally lonely” and I don’t mean he was friendless. Guys like these are easy “prey” to mpas and sps who feed and nurture that emotional and sexual void in a man like LI and anyone else who becomes weak emotionally at any stage in their life journey. Not many guys would ever admit to it. We are all vulnerable and human.

He has deep rooted psychological issues even before the SBJ debacle and the romance review novels. We spotted the symptoms in his reviews.

Leviathan said:

Everyone has their own coping mechanism and pain threshold. LI needs to do what’s right for him without 3rd party critics. He should have just dissappeared quietly and not make some fanfare announcement. He had an emotional connection addiction vs sex and needed to hit an emotional painful bottom. He was “deeply emotionally lonely” and I don’t mean he was friendless. Guys like these are easy “prey” to mpas and sps who feed and nurture that emotional and sexual void in a man like LI and anyone else who becomes weak emotionally at any stage in their life journey.

He has deep rooted psychological issues even before the SBJ debacle and the romance review novels. We spotted the symptoms in his reviews.

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Well said...

Yes his reviews were someone looking for romance instead of what these places really are.

What he should really be doing is going on a dating sight, obviously he’s looking for someone to love. It’s pretty easy if you’re vulnerable to mistake a session with a good mpa as something more than what it is.

Most guys are too busy and dating scene is not easy. MPA and SPA becomes a convenient substitute during those lonely Friday and weekends. But then it sucks you into the vortex of no return. And you rationalize your actions as an excuse when you know it’s not right. Easier said than done. It’s an addiction like drugs and alcohol.

Buzzkill said:

Well said...

Yes his reviews were someone looking for romance instead of what these places really are.

What he should really be doing is going on a dating sight, obviously he’s looking for someone to love. It’s pretty easy if you’re vulnerable to mistake a session with a good mpa as something more than what it is.

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Amen. Now let's move on...

Oh please stop being so sanctimonious. Have you listen to all the sage advice from others in your lifetime ? I call BS. Sometimes you just need to get burned to learn. You are now just trying to rub it in “I told you so”. No class.

King Arthur said:

Seems like he realized that because in his retirement thread before he deleted all his posts he said other guys should go on dating sites to find girls that are looking for love. I am proud of the guy for getting his head straight but he wont read this because he put me on ignore when he was writing his romance novel reviews and I told him to give his head a shake. He should have listened to assholes like me instead of listening to mpas that were playing him.

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i feel bad for him, yes.

Didn't they make a song about this a while ago? I'm in love with a stripper or something like that? Before there were established massage parlours there were other forms of paid sex. There is always that one guy that fell for a stripper and started bringing her flowers and gifts... When you see that happening you know its not gonna end well for him. So on one hand, I should feel sorry for the guy, but on the other hand its like... Dude, you should have seen this coming.

You reiterated that he won’t read it. I’ve lost count. LoL what purpose will it serve if he did ? Make him feel more lousy or greatful to anonymous poster ? Come on really ? I think it serves more of purpose to satisfy your own ego.

King Arthur said:

Fair enough like I said I am proud of the guy for doing the right thing. I made this post to support him even though he wont read it.

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King Arthur said:

Dude got himself in too deep in the hobby game. He was falling for girls dreaming of romance while the girls were dreaming of $$$. So he went overboard with one girl and she had to put him in check then he had to get out of the hobby. Some posters said him posting about retiring was narcissist but I think he was trying to get some support because he had to make a hard choice to get out of the game. I support him for doing the right thing even though I piled on him to expose his mistakes because I dont want other naive guys to love these hoes. I am proud of Lost for learning from his mistakes but he will never see this post because he put me on ignore a long time ago when I was telling him not to love these hoes. Stay strong Lost Innocence.

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I had a regular once, really a dream girl,pretty, green eyes, even had a dead end day job. Then she started actually climaxing with me (PIV) - and then she started kidding about saving my semen from the spent condoms for her future babies....

I GTFO asap and changed my number!!!

Lost loves the torture of losing the girl. He lives for that stuff.

He will find another girl, then smother her, then drive her crazy, then 'retire' again and tell us all how it is his fault, but he is better for the experience.

Soy Boys are all about the self-torture and anguish. And Lost is definitely a Soy Boy.

oh fuck
is that what happened?
dude was so sensitive and caring
why is that a flaw?
and such a poet
crap
now i feel bad
do not fall in love

love stinks!
yeah yeah!

I must have missed that whole episode. I liked his reviews. Everyone has to deal with the emotional component in their own way.

Lost has money to burn fucking spa girls....what's to feel bad about? The irony is his greatest love ,Jamie, outed him as a drama queen.Kudos to Jamie.

He scored many times with a cute young girl, he's lucky.

Sometimes we want to believe our own fantasies, mpas and sps are great actors and we enjoy when they make us feel “ special “, but we should never forget the moment we don’t show $$$ then there’s no more sweet words for us. They are working and do it very well for that I’m grateful but when I leave the place it’s somebody else’s turn. Hahaha IMG_8251.jpg

These women are incredible actors ,,
They are all money grubbing whores plain and simple end of story ,,
I don’t think I have ever met a one that has a decent bone . And when I see one of them acting nice and kind I know it is an act