Question for you guys

Borntobewild7 said:

@Sabarite I couldn't have said it better.

Not every guy is looking for extras every session. Sometimes I want fs, but most of the time I'd rather a sensual massage with lots of teasing and edging. Many of the fs girls don't offer that, and couldn't even if I asked. A truly erotic session takes skill.

If I'm a regular client, a great MPA can read what I want and adjust accordingly, even to the point of recommending another girl for times I want service outside her comfort level.

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You're a male feminist faggot.

MikeTO said:

You're a male feminist faggot.

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Thanks for your qualified professional diagnosis. However, I think your sister might say otherwise.

Since we're handing out personality analyses, you might what to do some research on SD3. Just a thought. Cheers.

MissJuliiet said:

Hey fellas!

I know you guys are always willing to give feedback/advice so I figured i’d ask here.

Does anyone really give a fuck about the massage? Whenever I have new clients I always give them a massage just to get to know them a bit but I honestly hate to waste time on it they don’t really care about it. But I find most guys are too shy to say what they really want despite me trying my best to create a comfortable environment (as difficult as that seems to be these days, lol)

Also a side question. I haven’t been offering extras explicitly because I feel like it comes off as a greedy/money grab if i just flip a guy over and say “hey want a blowjob? *wink*” so what’s the sexiest way a girl has brought up extras (aside from when I just really want to then I just go for it)

Thanks guys

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I don’t care about the massage.

@Whiteboy I think it might be time to update your Jennifer avatar.

She's a real sexy lady.

Borntobewild7 said:

Thanks for your qualified professional diagnosis. However, I think your sister might say otherwise.

Since we're handing out personality analyses, you might what to do some research on SD3. Just a thought. Cheers.

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Well you are a male feminists because those are used by feminists and manginas. Do your research!

My two cents: you can either give a short but top notch massage or skip the massage and get to the sexy part.

I last thing I want is a lousy massage that not only hurts my neck but also takes away some sexy time.

Thought I’d add my input
I havnt read all the other replies on here (though I probably should)

A massage I find is the most important and best way to start a great time. Unless told other wise because everyone is different. However, a massage helps you find where a man likes to be touched, what spots make him squirm and if he’s more of the sensual type or aggressive. It also helps you build a connection. It most importantly shows how good of a tease you are which I feel is a great quality to have in this industry. After all we want all them to long for more. It’s never a waste of time to the right gentlemen!
And the shy guys are never really that shy if you treat them right. When you reach the right level of intimacy people start saying things they didn’t know how to before.

As far as extras go a lot of these men have been to other places and know how things work, others may need a push into the right direction lol I find they usually ask you if you’ve got them going enough lol

@Miss.Juliet For me, a massage is part of the sensual experience. It's a good icebreaker. I agree with your feeling that offering explicitly right away seems to be too transactional. Proportionate to the length of the session, while exploring more sensitive areas ask "how much fun do you want to have today?" Most guys know the range of options in the industry, and this should be enough for them to tell you what they're looking for. I love the tease, and enjoy MPAs that are highly skilled at giving pleasure without extras. If extras are available just tell me 'we can take this up a level anytime you want.' Seduce me, and see how I respond.

Priyavaughan said:

Thought I’d add my input
I havnt read all the other replies on here (though I probably should)

A massage I find is the most important and best way to start a great time. Unless told other wise because everyone is different. However, a massage helps you find where a man likes to be touched, what spots make him squirm and if he’s more of the sensual type or aggressive. It also helps you build a connection. It most importantly shows how good of a tease you are which I feel is a great quality to have in this industry. After all we want all them to long for more. It’s never a waste of time to the right gentlemen!
And the shy guys are never really that shy if you treat them right. When you reach the right level of intimacy people start saying things they didn’t know how to before.

As far as extras go a lot of these men have been to other places and know how things work, others may need a push into the right direction lol I find they usually ask you if you’ve got them going enough lol

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It's your right and prerogative to run your sessions any way you wish and there are many justifiable reasons why girls prefer to include the massage in their routine.

Because we are gentleman we let you run your sessions your way, and then we don't return. It's true some guys enjoy and desire the massage, but however you choose to rationalize it the inescapable fact remains that a very large number of men consider it needless filler and a complete waste of time.

For myself it's infinitely preferable to see girls who fill the entire session with the activities that draw us to the spas and motivate us to spend the considerable amounts of money required to do so. It's all fine and well to justify including the massage no matter what, but it's worthwhile from a business perspective to be really honest about whose interests including the massage actually serves.

In my opinion the busiest girls in the industry are the ones who understand what men are really like, and their commitment to giving us what we want within their own comfort levels is what keeps us coming back for more.

IMO the only time there's any real ambiguity is at legit/semi-legit spas where the menu can be very unclear.

If someone is going somewhere like Seduction at the very least they're expecting a HJ finish and even if they aren't sure that extras are on the table they're almost certainly aware of the possibility.

So I don't think there's much downside in clarifying the client's desires and expectations as long as you're not crass about it.

"How would you like me to take care of you today? Should we start with a massage or something more intimate?"

The massage can be a nice way to ease into the session but the reality is that a lot of guys are just going for the sexytime/GFE and the massage is having to eat the vegetables before being allowed desert.

I can certainly see a lot of occasions where a new client will have difficulty broaching the subject or finding the right opening.

What spa does MissJuliiet represent?

Seduction...

MissJuliiet said:

Hey fellas!

I know you guys are always willing to give feedback/advice so I figured i’d ask here.

Does anyone really give a fuck about the massage? Whenever I have new clients I always give them a massage just to get to know them a bit but I honestly hate to waste time on it they don’t really care about it. But I find most guys are too shy to say what they really want despite me trying my best to create a comfortable environment (as difficult as that seems to be these days, lol)

Also a side question. I haven’t been offering extras explicitly because I feel like it comes off as a greedy/money grab if i just flip a guy over and say “hey want a blowjob? *wink*” so what’s the sexiest way a girl has brought up extras (aside from when I just really want to then I just go for it)

Thanks guys

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What's wrong with just asking, So, what would you like today?"