Question How to quit this hobby

[Deleted member 94419]

How to quit this hobby

Hello all, today is a different kind of post than my usual ones as I am seeking help. In regards to the title, I need support and advice on how to quit this hobby. It would not only help me but help others who would also like to.

If you care to read this part carry on. I began this hobby two years ago and it has been something that has started to take over my life in a way. I used to laugh at the idea of how can you be addicted to sex? What even is a sex addiction? It’s a natural instinct in our biology isn’t it? However realizing now and experiencing it on my own I realized it’s a real thing. When it’s all you think about at work, at school, when ur with ur partner, first thing when you wake up, before you go to bed then perhaps it’s an addiction. It’s something I want to stop doing however I just can’t. If anybody can give advice and methods on how to leave this hobby it would be greatly appreciated. I may relapse again however it is apart of the journey and it is part of the journey!

 

[Flatulent Fox]

This may be the wrong place to ask about this. Everyone here is already down the rabbit hole. It's like going to Skid Row and asking "how do I quit heroin"?

Recently there was a member here that posted about being in Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA). Maybe that's a good place to start.

 

[Victor Charlie]

I'm no pro but for me idk, I just decide not to go. Haven't been to Seductions since Dec 2022 and told myself to take a break for the winter. Well the winter is over and summer is just around the corner and it doesn't look like i'll be going back for quite some time. Part of it has to do with PORNPRINCE and C1000. They kept insisting (through the posts) not to go and for some strange reason I've followed their advice.

If I ever do go back i'll most likely post a review and hopefully it won't be as bad as my encounter with Shina lol..

 

[cupcrazy]

it is like smoking. take it step by step. say you hobby 5 times a week, instead of not hobbying at all. reduce the hobby little by little. perhaps find a hobby to get the mind off.

 

[Deleted member 82194]

Yeah I get where you're coming from this shit is expensive. I spent $600 this week multiple girls. I use to have a session on bad days now I do it for mild inconvenience.

My buddy wanted me to show him the ropes. I told him no, trust me you don't want this.

My advice I had problem with porn, masterbation and this hobby. I actually joined an online community which helped with the porn and masturbation. My dick was soo desensitized from jerki.

 

[c1000]

I'm no pro but for me idk, I just decide not to go. Haven't been to Seductions since Dec 2022 and told myself to take a break for the winter. Well the winter is over and summer is just around the corner and it doesn't look like i'll be going back for quite some time. Part of it has to do with PORNPRINCE and C1000. They kept insisting (through the posts) not to go and for some strange reason I've followed their advice.

If I ever do go back i'll most likely post a review and hopefully it won't be as bad as my encounter with Shina lol..

Whoa whoa whoa. When have I told people not to go?

I stopped talking about Seduction for a while now. Actually, I have most seduction threads on ignore and only see them when I logout. I only said they are a rip off and the girls ain't worth the inflated price they quote, but that was a long time back

That's why I get mad at people copying me. They don't know when to quit and it makes me look bad.

 

[c1000]

How to quit this hobby

Hello all, today is a different kind of post than my usual ones as I am seeking help. In regards to the title, I need support and advice on how to quit this hobby. It would not only help me but help others who would also like to.

If you care to read this part carry on. I began this hobby two years ago and it has been something that has started to take over my life in a way. I used to laugh at the idea of how can you be addicted to sex? What even is a sex addiction? It’s a natural instinct in our biology isn’t it? However realizing now and experiencing it on my own I realized it’s a real thing. When it’s all you think about at work, at school, when ur with ur partner, first thing when you wake up, before you go to bed then perhaps it’s an addiction. It’s something I want to stop doing however I just can’t. If anybody can give advice and methods on how to leave this hobby it would be greatly appreciated. I may relapse again however it is apart of the journey and it is part of the journey!

It breaks down to creating limits and self determination.

If you can't set boundaries and stay within them, then you are a loser. It's that simple. There is no nice way to say it.

Don't think I'm being harsh on just you, I hold myself to these standards too. From the start I told myself, I never want to participate more than 2 times a month and refusing to fail is what keeps me close to this promise.

You have to find that integrity within you and unleash it.

 

[Deleted member 94419]

It breaks down to creating limits and self determination.

If you can't set boundaries and stay within them, then you are a loser. It's that simple. There is no nice way to say it.

Don't think I'm being harsh on just you, I hold myself to these standards too. From the start I told myself, I never want to participate more than 2 times a month and refusing to fail is what keeps me close to this promise.

You have to find that integrity within you and unleash it.

I love that you said this because it’s so true. As a man, all you have is your word and if you can’t stick by it then you’re a coward. I’ll try to at least limit myself and try my absolute best to quit and if I say I’m going to then I’m going to. Thanks man

 

[millifrancs]

Replace it with another hobby. Everytime you want to spend that 200, you can think "oh man but I can put this on my Rolex GMT Master II" fund. And boom half a year later you'll have enough to buy something. (I know the wait times for Rolex is insane, just get a Tudor GMT). I think it helps to shift the behavior rather than fully quit. You have that energy, point it somewhere else.

 

[OG_funguy]

Go so much that it starts to feel like a job...no one likes to go to work, right?

I think I'm at this stage now

 

[cupcrazy]

Sometimes j don't feel the point of going to spa because most mpas are shit to begin with. You can tell most do not enjoy what they do and try to get cjm and get thr fuck out

 

[OG_funguy]

Sometimes j don't feel the point of going to spa because most mpas are shit to begin with. You can tell most do not enjoy what they do and try to get cjm and get thr fuck out

Maybe that's partly because of you too...no offense, just saying...

 

[cupcrazy]

Maybe that's partly because of you too...no offense, just saying...

Possible or maybe I am not attracted to thr mpas.

 

[Victor Charlie]

Whoa whoa whoa. When have I told people not to go?

I stopped talking about Seduction for a while now. Actually, I have most seduction threads on ignore and only see them when I logout. I only said they are a rip off and the girls ain't worth the inflated price they quote, but that was a long time back

That's why I get mad at people copying me. They don't know when to quit and it makes me look bad.

My apologies. I should have left names out of this. My mistake

 

[cali99]

My apologies. I should have left names out of this. My mistake

You can count your sorry ass as a default on this website.. your Posts. Are as useful as a bag of cocks!
dumb fuck

 

[jlp78]

My advice based on my experience would be to stay off of this website, kill the account and never open it again lol. I tried quitting last year, and it almost worked…. I relapsed because after a while I started innocently thinking to check in here to see what’s going on. Where are your favorite girls these days etc.. then when you on here you start reading a review of a new girls that sounds just like your cup of tea, or you see a picture of a nice booty you can’t get off your head… and you’re in again lol.

Imho this website and sites like it are the best thing that ever happened to this industry (from an insider perspective lol)

 

[Victor Charlie]

You can count your sorry ass as a default on this website.. your Posts. Are as useful as a bag of cocks!
dumb fuck

Great thanks. Have a nice peanut butter on me

 

[jizzy1]

At the end of the day these bitches only care about the ..

 

[Sybarite]

If I ever do go back i'll most likely post a review and hopefully it won't be as bad as my encounter with Shina lol..

What happened with Shina?

 

[Baldee]

Like Selena Gomez said,I mean I could but why would I want to.