Chat Ruined orgasm

[UsefulIdiot]

There is nothing special about me. I have been lifting weights and taking supplements since I was an underweight sixteen year old. For the last three years I have been on testosterone replacement therapy (I am over fifty). One way or another I orgasm at least once a day. As an awkward young man I did not have much sex, but over the last couple of years I having been making up for lost time - my so called midlife crisis.

 

[Mambo123]

Yep
Finding girls that can this do this is hard and there usually older girls
Finding younger girls that enjoy this is like finding a unicorn .

I found a unicorn at vivid spa few years ago..and had her trained . she would suck me for 30 min straight until I was ready to cum and then DT me right before I unloaded. My full load went straight down her throat. No gag ..no stopping and she would not stop sucking until my cock went soft in her month . Before we started the Bj she would say "I gonna put your cock to sleep" .. good times

Who was the girl at Vivid?

 

[Hangdai]

There is nothing special about me. I have been lifting weights and taking supplements since I was an underweight sixteen year old. For the last three years I have been on testosterone replacement therapy (I am over fifty). One way or another I orgasm at least once a day. As an awkward young man I did not have much sex, but over the last couple of years I having been making up for lost time - my so called midlife crisis.

So if I take testosterone, I can cum/orgasm even more?

Fuck me, I'm in big trouble then, lol

 

[UsefulIdiot]

If you have low testosterone and then bring it to the top end of the healthy range it will make a difference. I went from five orgasms a week to ten. I also added 12 lbs of muscle in six weeks (no gains since, but I continue to get stronger). But do not overdo it, excess T can turn into estrogen, cause acne, shrink your testes, cause "roid rage". The goal is too try to get to the hormone levels that you had at your healthiest time in your life. I get 1cc injections weekly in a doctors office and I just pay for the testosterone which is about $70 for a 5cc bottle. Getting a prescription is easy, just get your doctor to order a testosterone test and if you are low you can start treatment.

 

[vanelric]

I get what OP is saying, I've never considered that my orgasm is still ongoing or whatever I'm just sensitive in a good way after and it feels amazing when the girl just keeps going. Simple solution though, after you nut just say "Keep going"

 

[Kurt70]

If you have low testosterone and then bring it to the top end of the healthy range it will make a difference. I went from five orgasms a week to ten. I also added 12 lbs of muscle in six weeks (no gains since, but I continue to get stronger). But do not overdo it, excess T can turn into estrogen, cause acne, shrink your testes, cause "roid rage". The goal is too try to get to the hormone levels that you had at your healthiest time in your life. I get 1cc injections weekly in a doctors office and I just pay for the testosterone which is about $70 for a 5cc bottle. Getting a prescription is easy, just get your doctor to order a testosterone test and if you are low you can start treatment.

You can also use andro gel if you have low testosterone. Doctor prescribed for me and if you have a good health plan its covered. Just rub on shoulders every morning and your good to go.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

The gel is definitely more convenient, but absorption is variable so you need regular testing to make sure it is working.

 

[Old No. 7]

I have had some good experiences lately (see my other posts). There are many factors involved but one is the care given by the MPA at the moment of orgasm. It is best when they keep doing whatever they are doing until my dick becomes super sensitive and I ask them to stop. In contrast several times MPAs have stopped the action as soon as I ejaculate, which is incredibly frustrating as there is usually a good thirty seconds left to the orgasm, plus I like to enjoy the moment for a little bit before they get off the table and start clean up. It worse yet when the MPA suddenly becomes impatient for me to leave.

Just tell them what you like.
They're not mind readers.
They see so many guys with different likes, how are they supposed to know what you like if you don't tell them?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

The fear of rejection and awkwardness is real.

That being said I’ve started being more vocal with a new girl. If she declines no biggie or pulls out the cover for BJ I just say no, stick to standard session and don’t repeat lol

A year ago I told Mia at Winnie Spa (who is great) what I was looking for at the start of a session. Afterward she said she liked me because I was so direct - no guessing, no games. Lesson learned. These days as I enter the room I tell the MPA I am looking for HH FS, massage at the end if there is time left. If FS is not on the menu I leave. I will add "don't stop until I beg you" to my requests.

 

[curvluvr]

Curvluvr,
I use the term "Light" porn to refer to situations and women I myself could find myself in and with: the couples obviously like each-over, there is chemistry, they have not just met; they look like average people, 7s, not 10s, no giant fake tits and unusually large penises; no slapping, humiliation; the action can be awkward - penises slip out, men lose wood, women add lube, someone leaves to pee, the camera get jostled, a woman farts during anal; if there is any "acting" it is not very good. Instead of the term "hardcore", I should probably have used the term "professional". I prefer "professional" porn, but it is not good for me - I become desensitized, and real women and situations become less attractive to me. I am old enough that I remember before porn became widely available, just seeing a picture of a naked woman really got me excited.

Thanks for the clarification. Very interesting suggestion.
I, too, remember the time before porn was widely available. Porn was only available in hardcopy magazines or VHS that you would rent from the Adult Video store.
With porn being too widely available, we are truly desensitized.