Chat Retirement plan

[Happyman]

I plan to keep on going, as a dirty old man, as long as I can drive and walk comfortably. When I get to 70/80s, I probably would need supplements to help me enjoying. Flirt would seem a good place for elder people who may just want kissing and some body contact. I heard some Flirt girls told me that they have clients at 85 or even 90s.
When I have difficulty to drive, I hope I can have some reliable contacts who are willing to visit me at home and give me legit treatments, may be with some teasing.

What ideas do you guys have when getting old?

 

[goodtogo1962]

Throw some extra cash away for a dirty girl on the side who is willing to do an outcall. Get plenty of rest and enjoy your life as you never know when it is over .

 

[Happyman]

I am not there yet. But I would enjoy myself with the money that I hard earned. I deserve to have a good time with what I made, that's my philosophy.

 

[krayjee]

I am not there yet. But I would enjoy myself with the money that I hard earned. I deserve to have a good time with what I made, that's my philosophy.

Don't ever tell me you are not there yet. We all have expiry date, we just don't know when. Keep yourself fit and healthy, try to live a stress free life. Enjoy it while you can. We never know we will still be around tomorrow. Nothing is guaranteed in life.

 

[OG_funguy]

How close are you to retiring?

I'm no where close to traditional retirement age but must admit it's something I think about and can even see myself doing in the next couple of years. It would make a big dent on my hobbying though.

You may want to consider getting close to a few younger MPAs...then when you're older, there's a better chance they will still be working and/or be willing to see you privately.

Look at old man KJ...he's still firing on all cylinders.

 

[Hornet]

I’m in Krayjee’s will. So, I’m getting his spas and golf clubs when he goes. Look out for the daily schedules.

 

[OG_funguy]

I’m in Krayjee’s will. So, I’m getting his spas and golf clubs when he goes. Look out for the daily schedules.

You can have the spas, I just want the MPAs...

 

[Hornet]

You can have the spas, I just want the MPAs...

You can have them just like any paying customer

 

[OG_funguy]

You can have them just like any paying customer

No, I want the KJ special deals...

 

[Hornet]

No, I want the KJ special deals...

Get Krayjee to add that in his will

 

[sy barite]

I retired pretty young almost two years ago, I'm 55 now. The first six months were quite an adjustment, then I got used to my restructured life. And you do need structure or a routine of some kind because it is astonishing how fast the days can slip by one after the other if you don't give yourself some kind of plan. Hobbying became more complicated because I had no ostensible reason for going out. I did a few reno projects around the house, two new bathrooms and finally finished the basement...I play an instrument and I like to read a lot...but that still left me hours of twiddling my thumbs. And then about three months ago I got a side gig, on a contract basis. It wasn't easy to get during these Covid times, and It pays little, but that's ok by me because it gets me out of the house once or twice a week fairly regularly. I know it sounds great to think of being free from having to earn, but trust me, retirement needs some planning too.

 

[OG_funguy]

I retired pretty young almost two years ago, I'm 55 now. The first six months were quite an adjustment, then I got used to my restructured life. And you do need structure or a routine of some kind because it is astonishing how fast the days can slip by one after the other if you don't give yourself some kind of plan. Hobbying became more complicated because I had no ostensible reason for going out. I did a few reno projects around the house, two new bathrooms and finally finished the basement...I play an instrument and I like to read a lot...but that still left me hours of twiddling my thumbs. And then about three months ago I got a side gig, on a contract basis. It wasn't easy to get during these Covid times, and It pays little, but that's ok by me because it gets me out of the house once or twice a week fairly regularly. I know it sounds great to think of being free from having to earn, but trust me, retirement needs some planning too.

Interesting...after you retired, did you reduce your hobbying? If yes, by how much?

 

[loves to lick]

i agree with you Sy, i am retired too, you do need to structure your time as the days fly by and then the weeks do too, i did a lot of renos to keep busy, but i too found that it got more complicated to hobby especially now that the wife works from home, you can only go to canadian tire or home depot so many times in the week, it was so much easier before covid, sounds like i need to get a gig too

 

[cupcrazy]

since I worked in the bus industry part time before covid hits, I know a lot of retires drive the school buses to supplement their income and kill some time.

 

[mar91]

i agree with you Sy, i am retired too, you do need to structure your time as the days fly by and then the weeks do too, i did a lot of renos to keep busy, but i too found that it got more complicated to hobby especially now that the wife works from home, you can only go to canadian tire or home depot so many times in the week, it was so much easier before covid, sounds like i need to get a gig too

You need retired friends in the hobby so you can both go "get coffee and talk for a couple hours." I'm not retired yet but in the past I was commonly used as the excuse by some of my married friends. They just had to remember to tell me so I didn't say the wrong thing when talking with their wives. Being single I don't have that issue as I can come and go as I please, no one to answer to but myself.

One of the pieces of advice I always tell the younger people working for me or even the ones who are getting ready to retire is to make sure they have interests outside of work because if your whole life is based on your work then you will have problems adjusting to retirement. I have been picking up a lot of interests in anticipation of retiring and it probably helps that I have a varied interests and not all of them cost money so I get to save the money for this particular interest. Financially I could probably go today, but I have a somewhat cushy job that pays well, has a good benefits package, and gives me 5 weeks vacation a year, and now that I get to work from home it is just icing on the cake. If I want I can slip away during the day, just let my boss I will be offline for a bit and will catch up when I return.

 

[Happyman]

Thanks for all the good input. All the ideas and advice are valid for people here. For me, it is essential to have sufficient $ and good health at old age to keep on having fun. Having a MPA, who is of legit, semi legit or holistic nature to visit a senior at his home is not difficult. The main reason for a legit MPA not to make a home visit is security concern. However, if she knows you for a while and you are at 70-80s, she would not feel any threat. Probably, paying a fee similar to what we pay at her spa would be acceptable if we have the massage at a time when she is off duty.
I agree that we should keep active after retirement. One of my idea is to be a shareholder of a spa. Normally a girl would not like to partner with a guy unless the guy can contribute besides the starting fund. I have the idea of becoming a landlord of a small retail outlet and rent it out to a spa. The condition to give a special low rent is to allow me to have a small amount of share in the spa. I would help out in test drive when someone comes for a job. Ha Ha. The idea is not so much to make money, but to have something to do and of course some fun.
I would have a naughty girl to visit me once or twice a month to assist me in bathing. I heard there are free services provide by the Government/charity to help senior who has difficult in taking a bath by himself. When I looked at the helper's list on a charity organization, I found most of them were female. So, is it a good chance that a lady would be sent to help a senior for shower?
To enjoy a good life at old age, let's plan a bit far ahead!

 

[xtc27]

I’m in Krayjee’s will. So, I’m getting his spas and golf clubs when he goes. Look out for the daily schedules.

...damn... was going 4 that gig.... ... but don't want Snaky, bury him @ same time...

 

[xtc27]

Thanks for all the good input. All the ideas and advice are valid for people here. For me, it is essential to have sufficient $ and good health at old age to keep on having fun. Having a MPA, who is of legit, semi legit or holistic nature to visit a senior at his home is not difficult. The main reason for a legit MPA not to make a home visit is security concern. However, if she knows you for a while and you are at 70-80s, she would not feel any threat. Probably, paying a fee similar to what we pay at her spa would be acceptable if we have the massage at a time when she is off duty.
I agree that we should keep active after retirement. One of my idea is to be a shareholder of a spa. Normally a girl would not like to partner with a guy unless the guy can contribute besides the starting fund. I have the idea of becoming a landlord of a small retail outlet and rent it out to a spa. The condition to give a special low rent is to allow me to have a small amount of share in the spa. I would help out in test drive when someone comes for a job. Ha Ha. The idea is not so much to make money, but to have something to do and of course some fun.
I would have a naughty girl to visit me once or twice a month to assist me in bathing. I heard there are free services provide by the Government/charity to help senior who has difficult in taking a bath by himself. When I looked at the helper's list on a charity organization, I found most of them were female. So, is it a good chance that a lady would be sent to help a senior for shower?
To enjoy a good life at old age, let's plan a bit far ahead!

Retail thing prolly best way to help out a spa... major banks consider mp 2b money-laundering risks & won't do biz w them... won't lend 2u as a result... but retail plaza, no probs...

Start working on relationships w girls likely 2 own a spa... mebbe @krayjee can give some tips... Lucy @ SL or Cici @ Anna Relax seem like candidates 2 me... Coco @ Spa Moments is another one...

 

[mar91]

I heard there are free services provide by the Government/charity to help senior who has difficult in taking a bath by himself. When I looked at the helper's list on a charity organization, I found most of them were female. So, is it a good chance that a lady would be sent to help a senior for shower?

There are government run agencies called Local Health Integration Networks - there are 14 of them throughout Ontario. They do a service called home and community care. They determine the needs of individuals and will provide service based on the needs. Yes this includes assisting with bathing. As it is a nursing or personal support type work, this area is dominated by women workers, so yes you would most likely end up receiving a female attendant to assist in your needs. I don't think they run to the naughty side though.

And yes it is part of the health care provided in Ontario. It is to assist those who do not really need to be in a hospital full time and cannot find a spot in long term care. It allows the person to stay in their own home with support provided.

 

[hangul99]

How close are you to retiring?

I'm no where close to traditional retirement age but must admit it's something I think about and can even see myself doing in the next couple of years. It would make a big dent on my hobbying though.

You may want to consider getting close to a few younger MPAs...then when you're older, there's a better chance they will still be working and/or be willing to see you privately.

Look at old man KJ...he's still firing on all cylinders.

Im probably a couple of years older than you and a long ways away from retirement. As i get older i start to value other things over this hobby. My spend is down significantly.