RE: Erections

[max.0987t]

Hello Gentlemen,

As we approach Movember, it's important to open up about issues that men have. I am pretty sure there are other men here has/had the same problem.


So, I am in my mid 30s now. I have been hobbying since I was 20. Mostly semi legit, few incalls and holistic. I wasn't very active since I didn't have too much money back then and mostly had partners.

Lots of changes happened within the last 12 months. I started going to MPAs a lot and had a bit of money to spend. Few weeks ago, I noticed that I had a harder time getting erections. Before, I will get an erection when they are teasing on the back, prior to the flip. Few times, it didn't happen. Even after the flip, it took some work. At that point, I was embarassed and too much in my head, which made it harder.

I am always high on weed when I go for MPAs, have a fairly stressful life. I am concerned.

Is it that I am aging? the weed? the stress? is it normal not be up right away? Am I getting desensitized?

 

[Justine2016]

Hello Gentlemen,

As we approach Movember, it's important to open up about issues that men have. I am pretty sure there are other men here has/had the same problem.


So, I am in my mid 30s now. I have been hobbying since I was 20. Mostly semi legit, few incalls and holistic. I wasn't very active since I didn't have too much money back then and mostly had partners.

Lots of changes happened within the last 12 months. I started going to MPAs a lot and had a bit of money to spend. Few weeks ago, I noticed that I had a harder time getting erections. Before, I will get an erection when they are teasing on the back, prior to the flip. Few times, it didn't happen. Even after the flip, it took some work. At that point, I was embarassed and too much in my head, which made it harder.

I am always high on weed when I go for MPAs, have a fairly stressful life. I am concerned.

Is it that I am aging? the weed? the stress? is it normal not be up right away? Am I getting desensitized?

Most probably it is the stress, in your mid 30‘s assuming your health is normal you shouldn’t have a problem getting and maintaining an erection. I would recommend you try mediation. I had the same issues and after I started doing daily meditation my problems went away.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Its stress and tiredness and maybe the city pandemic stress.
Don't worry. Just take time off from your regular routine.
And come back to it later.
Stress from life.
Stress from work.
Stress from medicine.
Stress from parents.
Stress from women.
Stress from wife.
As Peter Gabriel said, he wrote in his song he once blamed a woman he was dating for ruing the evening sex.

 

[luvnewpussy]

= Your always high on weed

The best thing to enjoy while sober is pussy

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Hello Gentlemen,

As we approach Movember, it's important to open up about issues that men have. I am pretty sure there are other men here has/had the same problem.


So, I am in my mid 30s now. I have been hobbying since I was 20. Mostly semi legit, few incalls and holistic. I wasn't very active since I didn't have too much money back then and mostly had partners.

Lots of changes happened within the last 12 months. I started going to MPAs a lot and had a bit of money to spend. Few weeks ago, I noticed that I had a harder time getting erections. Before, I will get an erection when they are teasing on the back, prior to the flip. Few times, it didn't happen. Even after the flip, it took some work. At that point, I was embarassed and too much in my head, which made it harder.

I am always high on weed when I go for MPAs, have a fairly stressful life. I am concerned.

Is it that I am aging? the weed? the stress? is it normal not be up right away? Am I getting desensitized?

There are many causes of ED so you will have to do a little work to find out the issue. Start with a physical and get your blood sugar and testosterone levels checked. Often times problems with erections are warning signs about cardiovascular problems, so you should take ED seriously. If this is the case you are young enough to address the problem easily - get you blood sugar down to a healthy level, lose fat from around your waist, eat more healthy food, get in shape. You can turn things around in a month or two. If you are a smoker stop. If you smoke weed use edibles instead (I am a big fan of edibles and use them twice a week).

Just a quick note on weed - use it less often to enjoy it more. 15 mg of THC use to get me really high, them it took 25 mg, then it was 40 mg, then 80 mg. I have cut back to one 40 mg brownie twice a week, and I really enjoy that. I have really great orgasms at this dosage/frequency.

Mental issues are more challenging - they take a long time to properly diagnose and years to treat. But, hobbies, sports, and exercise often have equal or greater effects than therapy and drugs, so try those first. Our bodies are designed to be active, sitting in a chair all day is just not good for you.

It could also be a case of either boredom - take a break from hobbying for a while or change things up - or unfulfilled emotional needs - get a real girlfriend.

I will add one more thing: years ago I had trouble with one girlfriend, broke up with her and then had a really good sex life with the next one. Sometimes it just comes down to being with people we are compatible with.

 

[xtc27]

Hello Gentlemen,

As we approach Movember, it's important to open up about issues that men have. I am pretty sure there are other men here has/had the same problem.


So, I am in my mid 30s now. I have been hobbying since I was 20. Mostly semi legit, few incalls and holistic. I wasn't very active since I didn't have too much money back then and mostly had partners.

Lots of changes happened within the last 12 months. I started going to MPAs a lot and had a bit of money to spend. Few weeks ago, I noticed that I had a harder time getting erections. Before, I will get an erection when they are teasing on the back, prior to the flip. Few times, it didn't happen. Even after the flip, it took some work. At that point, I was embarassed and too much in my head, which made it harder.

I am always high on weed when I go for MPAs, have a fairly stressful life. I am concerned.

Is it that I am aging? the weed? the stress? is it normal not be up right away? Am I getting desensitized?

...so if u went 12 mos w/o sex, went 2 spa... yr hardon would break down doors!

...if u go every day...well, mebbe less thrilling... depends on mpa & yr chemistry...

...most mpas count on u 2b horny upon arrival, dont wanna spend time & work 2 get u going... so unless u find that gd connxn... only go when really horny...

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... advantage of spas over SPs... making a date w SP? What if I got laid night b4? Mebbe Im not in2 it. Spa, just go when yr in mood...

...truth 2 tell... have standing date w my fave... always get gd food & plenty of sleep night b4... but... if this girl would make me cum no matter what... ... so gd SP would b same thing... except I can cancel w MPA... SP? U get blocked... agencies get grumpy 2...

 

[Deleted member 79939]

There are many causes of ED so you will have to do a little work to find out the issue. Start with a physical and get your blood sugar and testosterone levels checked. Often times problems with erections are warning signs about cardiovascular problems, so you should take ED seriously. If this is the case you are young enough to address the problem easily - get you blood sugar down to a healthy level, lose fat from around your waist, eat more healthy food, get in shape. You can turn things around in a month or two. If you are a smoker stop. If you smoke weed use edibles instead (I am a big fan of edibles and use them twice a week).

Just a quick note on weed - use it less often to enjoy it more. 15 mg of THC use to get me really high, them it took 25 mg, then it was 40 mg, then 80 mg. I have cut back to one 40 mg brownie twice a week, and I really enjoy that. I have really great orgasms at this dosage/frequency.

Mental issues are more challenging - they take a long time to properly diagnose and years to treat. But, hobbies, sports, and exercise often have equal or greater effects than therapy and drugs, so try those first. Our bodies are designed to be active, sitting in a chair all day is just not good for you.

It could also be a case of either boredom - take a break from hobbying for a while or change things up - or unfulfilled emotional needs - get a real girlfriend.

I will add one more thing: years ago I had trouble with one girlfriend, broke up with her and then had a really good sex life with the next one. Sometimes it just comes down to being with people we are compatible with.

some men can't get it on with a hot model from nyc
but they can get it on with curvy lady in the village in the Philippines

 

[OG_funguy]

Hello Gentlemen,

As we approach Movember, it's important to open up about issues that men have. I am pretty sure there are other men here has/had the same problem.


So, I am in my mid 30s now. I have been hobbying since I was 20. Mostly semi legit, few incalls and holistic. I wasn't very active since I didn't have too much money back then and mostly had partners.

Lots of changes happened within the last 12 months. I started going to MPAs a lot and had a bit of money to spend. Few weeks ago, I noticed that I had a harder time getting erections. Before, I will get an erection when they are teasing on the back, prior to the flip. Few times, it didn't happen. Even after the flip, it took some work. At that point, I was embarassed and too much in my head, which made it harder.

I am always high on weed when I go for MPAs, have a fairly stressful life. I am concerned.

Is it that I am aging? the weed? the stress? is it normal not be up right away? Am I getting desensitized?

I sometimes have the same issue, before a subtle brush of the balls would get me hard but now it does nothing. Even higher level services don't always do the trick and it does play with your mind after a while...for me, I think it boils down to everything being too predictable. If you haven't already, try to mix it up and see new MPAs.

 

[xtc27]

I sometimes have the same issue, before a subtle brush of the balls would get me hard but now it does nothing. Even higher level services don't always do the trick and it does play with your mind after a while...for me, I think it boils down to everything being too predictable. If you haven't already, try to mix it up and see new MPAs.

New MPAs! A’right... right from the factory... that new girl smell... ahhhh!

 

[OG_funguy]

New MPAs! A’right... right from the factory... that new girl smell... ahhhh!

Something that always works for me is getting much more than I expected during a first visit...

 

[hangul99]

I sometimes have the same issue, before a subtle brush of the balls would get me hard but now it does nothing. Even higher level services don't always do the trick and it does play with your mind after a while...for me, I think it boils down to everything being too predictable. If you haven't already, try to mix it up and see new MPAs.

True. Many times knowing exactly how a session will play out is a boner killer.

 

[gottahobby]

some men can't get it on with a hot model from nyc
but they can get it on with curvy lady in the village in the Philippines

Surprising but true.

Back in the day I used to orgasm more often with plain looking Asian ladies as opposed to hot high-end spa girls.

Could it be:
Less intimidation?
Me focusing more on my own pleasure with the plain Asian ladies?
More of a turn-on at semi-legits when I got unexpected mileage?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

True. Many times knowing exactly how a session will play out is a boner killer.

Also, there are components to attraction that we may not be aware of - a subtle smell, a similarity to someone we have a good memory of, compatible immune systems (look it up, it is a real thing). Perhaps to my discredit a I have been with a couple of plain looking MPAs who were submissive and that really turned me on.

 

[mar91]

Interesting topic as I always use to hear those ads on the radio about so many percent have ED, I always wondered who they were talking about. I am not taking this lightly or making a jest, but I wonder if there is also some part that is also hereditary. From my understanding, some of my ancestors have had kids when they were very late in their life (up to 100 years old at the time) so were still very sexually active in later life. I have a few older brothers and from what they have said they are all still very active and I'm in my 50s and although I do not get excited like I did in my teens, it really doesn't take a lot. Heck, I'm sometimes popping a tent just seeing a good looking girl walk by or smelling her perfume.

I do try and take care of myself, do not smoke, drink occasionally, exercise, and I do not really have a lot of stress in my life. I believe stress causes a lot of varied health problems for people, this could be another.

 

[OG_funguy]

Also, there are components to attraction that we may not be aware of - a subtle smell, a similarity to someone we have a good memory of, compatible immune systems (look it up, it is a real thing). Perhaps to my discredit a I have been with a couple of plain looking MPAs who were submissive and that really turned me on.

Girls that seem to be genuinely aroused and horny is a big turn on...

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Surprising but true.

Back in the day I used to orgasm more often with plain looking Asian ladies as opposed to hot high-end spa girls.

Could it be:
Less intimidation?
Me focusing more on my own pleasure with the plain Asian ladies?
More of a turn-on at semi-legits when I got unexpected mileage?

Two xmas ago, i walked into a unpopular massage parlor in Markham and I carelessly gave the very average looking Asian lady a hard time because she was not porn star material.
I am sorry for being an idiot at that time. And i behaved inappropriately.
But when we got down to business, it was the best SURPRISE HJ, grouping and tits sucking . It was very powerfully sensual. For some reason.
Sometimes a natural average beauty with caring eyes and kindness - is worth a million.

 

[mar91]

Also, there are components to attraction that we may not be aware of - a subtle smell, a similarity to someone we have a good memory of, compatible immune systems (look it up, it is a real thing). Perhaps to my discredit a I have been with a couple of plain looking MPAs who were submissive and that really turned me on.

There was an SP who worked just for a summer in Toronto a few years back. She was good looking but by far was not the hottest girl I have ever seen. But for whatever reason she just did it for me. I use to get erect on the drive over to meet her, just the thought of seeing her got me going, and then when I did see her it would be like teenagers. Heck one time we didn't even get all our clothes off. As soon as I walked in we were all over each other and had sex with our clothes half torn off. I was very disappointed when she left after the summer was over. I haven't found anyone to quite match her, the closest I have come is with Paige from Pure. Paige is one of those girls who does it for me, I just like her look.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

There was an SP who worked just for a summer in Toronto a few years back. She was good looking but by far was not the hottest girl I have ever seen. But for whatever reason she just did it for me. I use to get erect on the drive over to meet her, just the thought of seeing her got me going, and then when I did see her it would be like teenagers. Heck one time we didn't even get all our clothes off. As soon as I walked in we were all over each other and had sex with our clothes half torn off. I was very disappointed when she left after the summer was over. I haven't found anyone to quite match her, the closest I have come is with Paige from Pure. Paige is one of those girls who does it for me, I just like her look.

cool
just like some guys they rather fuck the cleaning lady or maid or servant than their hot trophy wife

 

[tasteyou69]

Hello Gentlemen,

As we approach Movember, it's important to open up about issues that men have. I am pretty sure there are other men here has/had the same problem.


So, I am in my mid 30s now. I have been hobbying since I was 20. Mostly semi legit, few incalls and holistic. I wasn't very active since I didn't have too much money back then and mostly had partners.ro

Lots of changes happened within the last 12 months. I started going to MPAs a lot and had a bit of money to spend. Few weeks ago, I noticed that I had a harder time getting erections. Before, I will get an erection when they are teasing on the back, prior to the flip. Few times, it didn't happen. Even after the flip, it took some work. At that point, I was embarassed and too much in my head, which made it harder.

I am always high on weed when I go for MPAs, have a fairly stressful life. I am concerned.

Is it that I am aging? the weed? the stress? is it normal not be up right away? Am I getting desensitized?

The absolutely best way to destroy potency [ cause erectile disfunction] is to be a cigarette smoker. I would imagine that weed would cause the same damage, especially if you are a heavy smoker. Combine that with high stress levels and you are really playing with fire.

 

[xtc27]

True. Many times knowing exactly how a session will play out is a boner killer.

... girls w whom u got chemistry...

...so Asian Eva... not working right now, think scared of pandemic... came in rm...
... me= wondering b4 seeing her, geez, I dont boner up like I used 2...
...she does this really silly move, a lil back&forth shimmy with the hips... in lingerie, but not naked... it was so corny, like something f/ The Mod Squad... instant boner!
...then stripped it off, or mebbe I stripped it off her... wow... started necking like teenagers... such a turn on... .

... or 4 more PSE move... another mpa, start of session, looks @ xtc27-jr, exclaims My Favourite!... drops 2 her knees... Yes!

Sessions like that... u dont have time 2 think, it just happens... thats the best...