shanghai

As a professional femdomme & dominatrix based in Shanghai, I often field questions about the emotional and physical dynamics of my work. One recurring inquiry, tinged with curiosity and assumption, is whether dominatrices experience sexual arousal when dominating submissives. The answer is...

After I dominated my canadian submissive for 8.5hours in Shanghai, I thought I had closed the chapter on my time with him. But then, unexpectedly, he began to slip into my dreams — not like a ghost of memory, but like a presence that refused to fade. It wasn’t the usual mental replay of a...

Not every man is turned on by the usual. For some, soft kisses, candlelight, and vanilla sex fall flat. They crave something else — something deeper, darker, and far more intense. For a Canadian man I met recently for bdsm session in Shanghai, arousal doesn’t come from nudity or moans. It comes...

Looking for a bespoke BDSM experience tailored to your deepest desires? A Canadian submissive recently reached out to explore his unique feeding fetish, craving an intimate session centered around being fed pre-chewed food. This deeply primal and vulnerable act—where softened, bite-sized pieces...

Throughout my career as a professional dominatrix, I’ve dominated over 600 Western men in China, crafting and executing a wide range of BDSM scenarios. Each session is a dance of power, control, and exploration, with men willingly submitting to my dominance. Yet, amidst the sea of submissives, a...

As a Shanghai dominatrix, I am no stranger to unique and intense encounters, but there was something unexpectedly sensual about my recent session with a muscular pilot. He had contacted me for a BDSM session during his layover, seeking an experience that would push his limits. Little did he...

Breaking an Irish Slave: The Thrill of Rejection Kink Ultimate Humiliation: A Scottish Slave’s Once-in-a-Lifetime Experience Biblical Punishment: Spanking & Golden Showers for a Traditional Jew Tailored Submission: Dressing Down a European Slave with a Suit Fetish Pegging & Breathless Obedience...

Dacryphilia is a fetish or kink in which a person experiences arousal from tears or the act of crying. Some people are turned on by their own crying; others are turned on by seeing another person crying. Some people are also turned on by the emotional release that crying brings. With this in...

If you ask me what occupation breeds the kinkiest souls, my answer is simple: pilots. In my years of experience as a professional dominatrix in Shanghai, I have met countless men from all walks of life, but no group craves the depths of fetish play like pilots do. The aviation industry is...

An American tourist in Shanghai contacted me, craving a taboo session in a church — a place of purity that would soon bear witness to his surrender. The thrill of corrupting such a sacred space stirred something deep within me, so I carefully designed a scene that would test his restraint and...

As a dominatrix, one of my greatest joys is structuring bespoke BDSM scenes that features the unique fantasies and fetishes of my submissives. Recently, I had the opportunity to design a session for an English slave whose desires revolved around ASMR and bondage — a pairing as delicate as it is...

In the world of BDSM, the dynamics between a dominatrix and her submissives are typically professional, built on a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and a shared exploration of fantasies. However, the idea of a dominatrix dating one of her submissives often piques curiosity. How likely is it...

In the heart of Shanghai, where the skyline is as dynamic as the lives of its inhabitants, I, Alessandra, have carved out a niche that celebrates the intriguing and often misunderstood world of BDSM — specifically, water sports. As a dominatrix, I have had the unique opportunity to explore this...

Why confine BDSM to the four walls of a room? I am Shanghai Pro Domme Alessandra and love to incorporate various kink elements into immersive experiences, like a walking or day tour around Shanghai. Here’s a glimpse into one of the unforgettable outings I designed for expats living and working...

I am Dominatrix Alessandra in Shanghai, where I typically engage in one-on-one BDSM sessions. However, I decided to break from my usual routine for a thrilling encounter with the Australian twin brothers. I crafted an elaborate mindfuck game centered around the classic prisoner’s dilemma...

In the cosmopolitan heart of Shanghai, I embrace my role as a dominatrix, dedicated to crafting unique domination experiences for my submissive clients. Many of those who seek my services are Caucasian, drawn to the exotic allure of an Asian dominatrix. One day, an unexpected message arrived...

A businessman from Dubai ordered a chastity game session with me. On the day of our meeting, I stepped into his hotel room in Shanghai. I had a plan that transcended the ordinary. Once I had secured him within the chastity device, I grinned mischievously as I retrieved a large glass container...

For many individuals, childhood trauma can deeply affect their emotional and psychological development. One of the most significant impacts is how early experiences of pain, anxiety, or fear become twisted with feelings of safety or release later in life. Surprisingly, these connections often...

The other day a Canadian slave booked a foot fetish and bondage session with me. I arrived at his hotel room in Shanghai and said“You have chosen to serve this evening, but remember, submission is both a gift and a challenge.” I prepared my tools—a collection of ropes that would bind him...

A while ago, I received an intriguing email from an American expat, who sought a stiletto fetish session. His request was perfectly in line with the experiences I love to curate, so I was excited to design a session that would leave a lasting impression on him. For the occasion, I selected a...