Have u guys tried to quit?

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  1. freewilly416

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    Only been around a short while in this world. Mostly seen MPA and tried out a couple of SP’s. Mostly BBBJ only, but started wanting more...

    My last session I finally did CFS. Felt really shameful afterwards. Lingering guilt - just a horrible feeling. The $$ not a concern at all, but health risks and thinking of consequences to my family made me feel really terrible I’d go to such lengths just to get off. Swore to myself I’d stop. But I know I felt the same way when I got my first HJ at an MPA. Then when I got my first BBBJ. Sexual desire seems unquenchable, and lines you set out not to cross, just become the next stepping stones.

    I think I better stop while I’m ahead. Wish me luck.
     
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    Freshy1 Well-Known Member

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    Your feelings of remorse are not uncommon. A lot of guys kinda feel the same after doing the deed. You have a conscience but the force to the dark side is strong.
     
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    Have I tried to quit? Fuck no! At my age and with the state of my marriage it's my reason for getting up in the morning!!
     
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    When in doubt, Leave
     
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    I quit for 9 months and went in to see Tiana one day when she called me and seeing all those lovely ladies walking around in their sexy lingerie was enough to come back.
    Thought about quitting when Daniella retired but now I have a new lady.
     
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    i try to quit all the time, never sticks. It's addictive and after so long it's part of my routine
     
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    been at it for 26 years
    have gone a few months without it at a time but always drawn back
    seen hundreds of girls over the years
    have had a few scares, condom came off once, almost convincing yourself that it stings when you urinate, noticing a cut on your finger after you've had it inside a MPA's vagina.
    been lucky I guess.
    some of these ladies have been truly memorable and I often lie in bed and think of them.....
    can't stop now....
    probably the reason I never got divorced.....
     
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    I mean you don't have to do extras you know?

    Kinda like how heroin addicts use methadone to get off heroin, you might want to ease out of it. Take increasingly longer breaks between visits until you quit.

    Try jerking off a bunch. Whenever you get the urge to go. Watch porn, and take the time to find good porn lol. This alone should work.

    If you want get yourself a fleshlight. Since money's not a problem for you I recommend all the accessories for fleshlights too. And investing money in it will save you money if it gets you to stop going. And since fleshlights are kinda expensive, you'll feel compelled to use it and blow your load into it and not onto the tits of an MPA.
     
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    Why did you start going there in the first place? Can you tell us?
     
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    I'm going through exactly the same thoughts and was actually going to start a similar thread. Coming back to the beginning after writing a lot the thoughts I'm sharing are verbalization of things I've been trying to tell myself but haven't really articulated until now.

    I've come to terms with the fact that it is an addiction. It's one with manageable risk compared to substance abuse or even problem gambling. That is but one of my many rationalizations.

    I've got a lot to lose if found out and have had a couple of close calls in the last few months which I looked at as warning signs that I should quit. But I haven't... I always play safe and I can actually rationalize going once every two months but the amount of time in my average day where I check this board or who's on shift would put "Hobbying" in my most used apps. Ever street I drive down I always notice the "Spa"/"Massage"/"Open" signs where I'm sure most people look right part them.

    You won't quit unless you treat it like an addiction and recognize the pull, the itch you get when you have an alibi and an opportunity.

    Dont beat yourself up about what you've done and try to frame the memories positively. You had amazing experiences with beautiful women. And now you've decided that for whatever reason, it's time to stop. Use an app if you need to to block every MPA website including (ESPECIALLY) THIS board.

    I've got a time limit based on other things in my life that make it important for me to quit next month. Trying to practice restraint (tonight was hard) will treat myself on my birthday this month and then maybe one more time because I've almost earned a free door fee at Flirt from their 'frequent flyer' program. Want my last few experiences to be incredible and then I'm quitting.

    Feel free to PM if you need a "MA sponsor" (MA = Massagaholics Anonymous).
     
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  11. Ursus

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    I studied MGTOW, then realized women are assholes, then I quit the hobby.

    Haven't hobbied in almost 1 year.
     
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    OleDirtyBastard Well-Known Member

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    I'd add that Virtual Reality porn is next level shit. Get yourself an Oculus Go for the price of two sessions and download some of the videos from WankzVR or Naughty America VR. It's good enough to fool your brain and simulate some of the brain chemicals that would be released with a real sexual encounter.

    Although like regular porn you'll eventually get used to it and like Methadone it's not in itself a complete treatment for addiction.

     
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    Married and Single Men over 45's not likely to quit
    Single Men under 40's go on and off
    Lucky men will never found out what this hobby is about
     
  14. Ursus

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    Listen to me:

    Study MGTOW

    And then you will be able to quit.
     
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    If you have a woman in your life, try to repair relations with her and make her feel good. Automatically as she starts giving you more pussy you will feel less attracted to others.
     
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    Make the woman feel good?

    For what?

    She isn't worth it. She is a cunt. A piece of shit.
     
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    quit pussy?
    N-E-V-E-R ! ! ! !
    lol
    r u catholic?
     
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    I am older and I don't expect to quit.
    The girls at Premier are quite amazing and I love to try out the new ones.
     
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    I will probably quit when I cant get it up anymore.

    Sent from my SM-G955W using Tapatalk
     
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    Hell no. I love it, you love it, Everyone loves it. Don't kid yourself.

    Even if I were married I'd still go to strip clubs from time to time.

    The sooner you embrace this and accept it for what it is, the better you can deal with the situation.
     
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