This is all very vague...would be nice to hear from SBJ...
But from Losts old reviews, I think he was a sucker romantic who fell for the fake affections these girls provide and actually thought he was in love or that she was in love with him, which can be distressing for the girls, these guys become stalkers...
From SBJ’s posts, she seems like a girl who has fun at what she does and wouldn’t date a guy who visits spas.
I saw an interesting doc on a Skype sex worker and a client, he thought they were in love and she was his girlfriend. He was in Australia or something and she was in the US living with her husband, but this guy thought he was her bf. she flew to Australia to meet him. He had told all his friends she was his girlfriend, anyway, when she arrives, the whole thing was super awkward, she really wasn’t interested in him at all.
This sounds like that type of situation.