For me the release is a distant second priority. As aptly put by a member above...that can be done watching porn at home. I go for the connection. I find most MPAs at the spas i visit (i have not visited SPs) very intelligent and articulate. The whole "experience" is so much better when i find we are "understanding" each other. Never was interested in a Slam-bam-thank-you-mam. Never will be. BTW i used to live in the US before moving to the Big Smoke. We are truly blessed to be able to walk in and spend time with these incredibly beautiful girls!