If you don't have this privileged breeding and upbringing, at least attend deportment classes at a classic deportment school, established at least 50 years or more. Include elocution lessons - even if you feel you speak well, the concurrence that you speak beautifully from a professional orator is always a lovely confirmation! Go to see an image consultant to confirm your look and style is that of an elegant, well bred women. Get a second opinion... Have your hair and makeup done professionally - watch the makeup artist, and take classes on how to apply tasteful, elegant makeup. Not glamor makeup, but proper, natural looking, fresh-faced makeup. Anything you apply to yourself should always look like it is naturally yours. As such, massive long eyelashes are out of the question. However, tasteful eyelash extensions that look entirely natural can be acceptable. You need to look as good without make up as you do with makeup - so make sure your skin is immaculate underneath. Take some classes in horse riding, tennis, skiing, swimming, snorkeling, scuba diving. Take up an art, learn a language. Learn to play piano or flute, cello or clarinet. Take a class or 12 on wine appreciation. Tale a class on art history. Know something about classical music - who is your favorite composer? Why? What are his origins? How often do you actually listen to his pieces? Can you recognize which composer has composed a piece of music, if played to you..? Is it Verdi, Mozart, Bach, Beethoven, Chopin, Mahler..? Were these artists all composing in the same era? Which ones lent their music to operas? What is the proper name for a song sung in an opera? - These are all basics you should know. Which is your favorite opera? Do you even really like opera? One generally loves it or doesn't. How about ballet? Do you know the famous historical Prima Donnas? Do you have a favorite Ballet performance? Invest in yourself and in your knowledge. You cannot cater to gentlemen of this caliber without some exposure to and knowledge of high society. If your cultural knowledge extends to the latest reality shows and the latest celebrity gossip, then you are far away from being able to perform at an elite courtesan escort capacity. Once you have bought yourself to an appropriate level of refinement, and can hopefully pronounce it all in French or Italian, now it's time to decide whether you wish to work as an independent courtesan for yourself, or to work with an appropriate and professional high class escort agency. Herein can lie the difficulty. There are many pitfalls in both. But played properly, you can succeed in either: Independent- You are able to set your own hours, your own fee, and select your own clients directly. However, you have a lot of expense in setting up a professional image with a website and continued advertising. There is no security behind you, and negotiating fees can be extremely demeaning. Screening and going through all the sometimes distasteful inquiries can sometimes remove the lovely fresh innocence that a women has when she is kept exclusive to lovely gentlemen. However, you do have absolute control of your career with nobody to answer to. Agency - You have instant professional promotion and expensive marketing to benefit from - assuming they understand the concept of the courtesan. You can usually set our own fee as long as the agency is agreeable, and a good agency will allow you to select your clients also. Any agency forcing you to meet people you don't want to meet is one to steer clear of.You have good security behind you with a quality agency, and all the screening is done professionally by the agency. You never have to see all the disgusting inquiries they filter for you. A quality escort agency, somewhere really high end like Mynt Models, will afford you some level of control over your promotion and image, and will offer full training for new people. But they will need to know your availability in order to properly promote you. Although, if you can't be reliable enough to work with an agent, you might not be at the courtesan level. Even as an independent you need to be extremely prompt and reliable. Final Verdict If you do decide to work with an agency, then you have the tedious task of sifting through the many thousands of websites set up by people trying to make money at all costs, and find the few quality organizations who exist solely to bring quality people together. The former will behave with underhanded practices, lie to clients, demand you meet people and do thing you don't want to, and potentially even refuse to pay you (for good honest work you have completed without complaints). To find these agencies, do some thorough research. Once you've made a short list, the only way to truly test an agency is to work with them. See where they send you, how they treat you, what happens when it's time to be paid. The only way for an agency-staff situation to work is for both parties to be honest, transparent and respectful. If either is deceitful or untrue, there is no way to continue the beneficial arrangement comfortably. There are many more points to consider, but we'll leave some of the discoveries to your own opinion and experience. As long as you steer clear of agencies expecting you to be involved in taking, selling or transporting drugs, or those whose management wishes to 'try you' first (!!), or those who put pressure on you to meet with someone or do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, then you may be okay. Be very careful, because a lot of agencies are set up by ex-clients or ex-working girls, trying to make money. They are not professional business people, and they don’t always do what they are promising… Your life is in their hands, so be very careful. Don’t be fooled by big promises and flash. Find out the fundamentals like how they screen their clients. Like, the elite escort agency Mystique Companions takes their clients through a particular screening software, which is what most professional organizations will do. Find out what their cut off points are (why they would turn down a client, if at all). Find out whether they are on the side of the models, the clients, or an equal balance of both. If there is a problem like you’re lost, do they help you or leave you to figure it out? Find out how long it takes to be paid for credit card appointments. Do they offer any training or any transparency on how their organization operates? Be smart. An intelligent girl like you should be able to sniff out a quality agency, and enjoy a fun, luxurious and tasteful career as an elite escort- assuming you can bring equal quality to the table.