What's with the saliva trend?

I've only had the "spitting routine" from 2 MPA's, and I found it sexy coz it caught me by surprise. One MPA didn't do this the first 4 or 5 times we were together so I'm guessing one of my massageplanet.net brothers must have TAUGHT her !

I'm really not sure if porn is to blame for the "escalation" of various activities at MP's.

I believe it's natural for two human beings who have chemistry to want to please each other both emotionally and physically...

As I mentioned in another post, sometimes MPA's have caught me by surprise to the point I've said:

" are you SURE this is OK ?? "

I've found NEW MPA's especially very curious to try different things, within realistic limits...

For instance, language training such as Russian and Italian.

Some of the younger girls have only had one or two BF's.... and how many 20 year old guys last more than a minute, let alone know HOW to please a woman?

That's where being old, horny and experienced is a REAL advantage, regardless of one's physical prowess.

That said, MPA's won't necessarily offer EVERYTHING to EVERY client who walks in the door. It takes a few sessions to build rapport and trust.

.... and of course, YMMV is always the golden rule.

Would you stop it with the cliches already?

I agree that the trend probably started with Jenna Jameson, as she's been quoted in interviews, and I've seen in her films that spit and a firm grip are part of her BJ technique .... which I love watching. And nowadays, watching some porn stars, they release someone from their mouth w/ a long trail of saliva, take it and rub it all over the guy's unit.

As for the safety aspect, I'm sure it's it not as safe as just oil, but watching a hot MPA work up a nice bit of saliva as lubricant and slowly drool it over said unit (rather than spitting) before going to town is a great way to start the final leg of any session. Even better is when they look back w/ a sexy look and lick their lips as they start working away.

I'd say just enjoy it ... if your MPA is in to it and thinks it'll make things more erotic/exciting, let her go ahead.

Spitting before BJ doesn't make sense.

There is no need for lubrication for a BJ.

Hopefully you told her you didn't like it *S*

Hand in hand with prices and alternatives... na... I would say that the creation of the review board for the purpose of being sure the next guy didn't get ripped off.. succeeded.. BUT... it also added fuel to the fire in the way of higher expectations. When a guy posts.. 'I went to see so and so and she did this and that with a frick and frack'.. the next guy that comes in to see her.. (who comes from the same community as the review board)... gets into the room with her.. and says.. 'hey... I got a frick and frack .. do THAT!' .. lol. No more privacy for sessions or intamacy.. because some girl's feel betrayed by details getting out there. Including that particular girl you speak of... that was the major one thing that turned her off.. was when a guy would mention.. 'oh.. i hear you do this and that.. I wanna friggen frick and frack'.. lmao! In the girl's mind its like.. 'but hang on a second.. that session was intimate... personal... there was a little chemistry.. am i expected to do the exact same with someone who is not only demanding it... but telling me that he read about it in the front page of the newspaper!' See what I mean.. so... there has to be a grey area in between the black and white. I don't think that price has anything to do with it IMHO.

Here here! I can concur..

I have quite a few pussies around me.. na nana na na!...lmao

What does the cat say about this mess and spitting.. and... other things?

I moved... and believe me... every morning I take a few minutes to look around me.. take a deep breath and smile. We should do what we choose because we 'want' it and not because we 'have' to do it.

I read once.. and I'm tryin real hard..

A person who can accept things that may happen regardless of whether or not they are good or bad things.. but accept that they happened for a reason and smile though it.. even if it be traumatic.. knowing it will lead them down the correct path... the person who can accept that.. is a real master.

Sounds like you are on your way to mastery. ... Living in the moment and not taking for granted ... seems simple, but it is quite a skill.

I think very few people reach that and I'm surely not one of them... I just know what I like baby... what I want... and I propell myself towards it. Where there's a will there's a way... hehehe...

Now.. back to the spit lol

Uhhhh.. sorry but we keep being told on the board that what happens in an MP or at the SC or whatever is nothing but a fantasy. And as a customer you should not read too much into it beyond the fact that the girl provided good service. If the customer starts thinking "oh, we had chemistry" and that was "intimate" and "personal", he starts descending down the slippery slope of merging fantasy with reality. Whenever that happens, we know it is a sure fire route to disaster for the man. You can't have it both ways.

I can't speak for Kayla but I think I understand the point she's making. There are things that go on in a session that I leave out of reviews for the simple reason that I don't want guys saying to her "I heard you did X,Y, Z." Because lets face it, yes I'm not the only guy getting certain things done but not every guy gets the same service for a million reasons.

But I do see ML's point of not reading too deep into an act and realize its part of a fantasy.

E.g. I don't mention if I get DATY.

Tolerate...Accept...Inspire


Goals and self-motivation. Thanks for words of wisdom.

Back to the thread...

Not to stir the pot or anything ... ok to stir the pot ...

If we are talking about the MPA I think that we are talking about, it was not always an issue of another guy coming in but a regular who may get variable service after - may I say it? - being strung along or "played" for a while. Now of course it is always the fool's fault for getting played, but feigning innocence as well ... well ...

Oh the joys of being mercurial. If one plays with matches, fires may get out of control.

Just like Jennifer on Big brother 6, it is ok to use feminine wiles to con a schmuck. There is nothing wrong with Machiavellism. But let's at least call it what it is, instead of rationalizing and pretending otherwise. The politics of the sexes.

I think you are considering this from the girls perspective only .I was thinking from the consumers point of view. When I was talking price and that leading to expectations of "fantasy" I was considering a GFE FS incall or outcall at $250 vs. a top of the line BS at $260 . Given that the specific "services" aren't the same the expectation of a little fantasy along with the slide would be natural given the similarities in price . Something is needed in order to even the scales so to speak. If the BS was $100 the expectations would be lower as well.

Reach it? I agree. But working towards it? Also mastery is a relative position.



Yeah, me too. Yet I guess either my will is lacking or what I want is rather extravagant. It is a tough road.

"You gotta live with your dreams
Don't make them so hard"



But ... but ... I don't like getting skewered!

Actually I would love getting drooled on! I think that if the chick let it down slowly and erotically it would be such a tease. But I would not go for it, because I am such a hypochondriac.

I think it's just a lusty thing do they hell do it but I appreciate the art they made for the people in need. Before I never open porn sites nor adult erotic sites. But I do idolize people whom never think bad with porn stars. They are just working with their job...
http://globalsexreviews.net is my hobby.

nette said:

About a year ago, and after many (too many) years of "hobbying", a SP that I had seen for a long time did something that was new for me..she spat on my **** before giving me a bj.

Over the last year, though, I have had 3 different MPA's also spit, drool or otherwise administer saliva.

Not the safest practice in the world, I expect, but not one that I could stop them from engaging in as it has always "come out of nowhere".

Just find it rather odd that, after so many years of "being dry", 4 unconnected women within the last year have adopted this practice.

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Yeah, & a lot of Asian vids spend 75% of time slurping each other all over & making that disgusting slurping sound - I find that a real turn-off! ... I visited a new girl today, & even when not 'on the job' she was slurping - I asked her not to do that as it was a turn-off!

Similar, but different comment:
I was watching a Jimmy Farr (Brit comedian - very funny, but DIRty !!) vid on YouTube - his advise: Spit is a lousy lubricant for anal sex - blood is so much better !!!

Naughtyfox said:

We all want what we do not have. If we had it we would take it for granted.

We could move to the country ... and our issues would move with us.

It is all a state of mind. And that took x number of years to create, it is very hard to develop another state of mind over night.

Porn is changing how we form relationships. Yet porn is just a reflection of our society as is everything else.

... well I am off to the mall to be a good consumer ... gotta buy more porn. Gotta live the fantasy vicariously.

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Lol, Are you referring to chocolates?