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LostInnocence said:

Hi Everyone.

It has been a while since I have posted here. For almost a year, early 2017 to 2018, I was on here every day, read every thread, reviewed many ladies, had lots of discussions, some of them even cordial.

I stopped posting in February, said that I wasn't going to be writing on the board but I would be around, and I didn't say why. Some people knew, or guessed. They knew I had fallen for SweetBabyJamie. I was probably in love with her before I met her, and then when she walked into the room, I was overwhelmed. I found the best thing you could find in the industry.

Sadly, it didn't last. I take full responsibility, and I apologize to her for my faults. She's just an amazing girl, and the three months we were together gave me one of the most cherished periods of my life. And then nothing else was the same. No one could replace her. I saw a few ladies who were special to me one more time. And then I had a last very special session, and that was the end.

It has been a couple of months now. Jamie and I patched up - she's forgiven me for everything and apologized. I had nothing to forgive her for.

I gave up reading the review boards long before my last session. I stopped checking profiles and schedules. I do relive my memories. But I don't feel the big urge to go back, and in fact the whole idea now seems strange.

Hobbying… it was an amazing experience, very rewarding, and I'll enjoy the memories forever. The ladies were incredible. And it was an addictive lifestyle. But you can break the addiction if you want. I am glad that I did.

Maybe I found some of my innocence again.

Thanks for the good times, all. Thanks for the memories.

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This is what happens when boys are breast fed to the age of 12.

LostInnocence said:

Hi Everyone.

It has been a while since I have posted here. For almost a year, early 2017 to 2018, I was on here every day, read every thread, reviewed many ladies, had lots of discussions, some of them even cordial.

I stopped posting in February, said that I wasn't going to be writing on the board but I would be around, and I didn't say why. Some people knew, or guessed. They knew I had fallen for SweetBabyJamie. I was probably in love with her before I met her, and then when she walked into the room, I was overwhelmed. I found the best thing you could find in the industry.

Sadly, it didn't last. I take full responsibility, and I apologize to her for my faults. She's just an amazing girl, and the three months we were together gave me one of the most cherished periods of my life. And then nothing else was the same. No one could replace her. I saw a few ladies who were special to me one more time. And then I had a last very special session, and that was the end.

It has been a couple of months now. Jamie and I patched up - she's forgiven me for everything and apologized. I had nothing to forgive her for.

I gave up reading the review boards long before my last session. I stopped checking profiles and schedules. I do relive my memories. But I don't feel the big urge to go back, and in fact the whole idea now seems strange.

Hobbying… it was an amazing experience, very rewarding, and I'll enjoy the memories forever. The ladies were incredible. And it was an addictive lifestyle. But you can break the addiction if you want. I am glad that I did.

Maybe I found some of my innocence again.

Thanks for the good times, all. Thanks for the memories.

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Wow, how do you even date a girl in this business . How do you even ask them out.

I’m impressed Lost, way to go, and Sweet Baby Jamie of all the girls, she seems so dedicated to her job.

I had given it up for years, maybe once a year I d go, been off the rails a bit lately, might be time to give it a break as well.

Wtf is this all about? So you're basically saying that you dated a girl that worked at an erotic spa and it didn't pan out? I wonder why.

Know when to stop, mothers,the LostInnocence psychosis will be your fault.

Hairy Arab said:

Wtf is this all about? So you're basically saying that you dated a girl that worked at an erotic spa and it didn't pan out? I wonder why.

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The same reasons it doesn't work with girls who aren't in the business. Some relationships work and some don't and that's life.

This is a joke right?

Or am I missing something........

Hairy Arab said:

Wtf is this all about? So you're basically saying that you dated a girl that worked at an erotic spa and it didn't pan out? I wonder why.

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He does not say he dated her. Maybe he was her sugar daddy for a while or some arrangement like that but more likely he started seeing her exclusively at the MP, did not see any other girls anywhere, so he decided he was like her boyfriend. Probably he had to apologize to her because he tried to act like they were a real couple and she was like “nah I still want to suck and fuck dozens of dudes for cash every week, know your role and pay me or GTFO” either that he or figured out her real identity tried to send her roses at home and one of her kids or her druggie boyfriend answered the door and got confused and she had some splaining to do or something like that. He used to bring the girls flowers and teddy bears at the spa lol.

@King Arthur you couldn't be further from the truth. You should talk about things you know and stop giving your opinion when you know nothing about it.

playfulfun said:

@King Arthur you couldn't be further from the truth. You should talk about things you know and stop giving your opinion when you know nothing about it.

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So if you know the truth than say the truth but he never says he dated her and everything that I said happens between girls and clients all the time and I never said it is exactly what happened I said it was probably what happened.

playfulfun said:

Some relationships work and some don't and that's life.

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True. But, lets not confuse "transactions" with real relationships.

Is it because you were shilling hard for her in this thread and she never "reimbursed" you for being a simp?
http://massageplanet.net/review-of-sweet-baby-jamie-at-sunshine-spa.t147156/

Have you finally realized this is just a business and not to get hooked on it?

LostInnocence said:

Hi Everyone.

It has been a while since I have posted here. For almost a year, early 2017 to 2018, I was on here every day, read every thread, reviewed many ladies, had lots of discussions, some of them even cordial.

I stopped posting in February, said that I wasn't going to be writing on the board but I would be around, and I didn't say why. Some people knew, or guessed. They knew I had fallen for SweetBabyJamie. I was probably in love with her before I met her, and then when she walked into the room, I was overwhelmed. I found the best thing you could find in the industry.

Sadly, it didn't last. I take full responsibility, and I apologize to her for my faults. She's just an amazing girl, and the three months we were together gave me one of the most cherished periods of my life. And then nothing else was the same. No one could replace her. I saw a few ladies who were special to me one more time. And then I had a last very special session, and that was the end.

It has been a couple of months now. Jamie and I patched up - she's forgiven me for everything and apologized. I had nothing to forgive her for.

I gave up reading the review boards long before my last session. I stopped checking profiles and schedules. I do relive my memories. But I don't feel the big urge to go back, and in fact the whole idea now seems strange.

Hobbying… it was an amazing experience, very rewarding, and I'll enjoy the memories forever. The ladies were incredible. And it was an addictive lifestyle. But you can break the addiction if you want. I am glad that I did.

Maybe I found some of my innocence again.

Thanks for the good times, all. Thanks for the memories.

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That is quite a transition for you LI considering how deeply involved you were!

Considering how much you seemed to enjoy it at the time, I'm curious to what is happening in your life now that you feel is superior to participating in the hobby?

And why did you decide to leave? On the one hand by your own admission it was very rewarding and you have incredible memories. If it was as good as that, did you leave because you felt addicted and not in control anymore?

How certain do you feel that you won't ever return?

Being seriously involved with a hot attendant would be a dream for many. Did you find that visits to the spa weren't as exciting and rewarding once you had reached that level?

It sounds like you didn't want things to end with SBJ. Would you still be together with her now if it were possible? Do you think there's anything you could have done differently that would have extended the relationship?

Were you still visiting the spa while you were having a relationship with SBJ, or was that not cool with her? I always presumed that most girls in the business would be OK with their guys visiting the spa given the number of guys they are seeing every day in their work setting, but I've been surprised to discover most girls in the industry still want total fidelity nevertheless!

By all accounts maintaining a relationship with a girl in the business is not an easy thing to do. What is your advice to anyone who wants to make such a relationship last as long as possible?

Sorry for all the questions but I'm really interested in your perspective given everything that happened to you while you were still visiting the girls and since then... it seems like you did an awful lot and went through the full gamut of experiences during the brief time you were involved.

I'm surprised you would completely walk away and stay away forever if it was as good as it seemed for you.

Sybarite said:

Being seriously involved with a hot attendant would be a dream for many.

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Not that my experience would be a deterrent for anybody getting involved with a HOT attendant going forward. DON'T DO IT. Men are not hardwired to think rationally in these situations.

Runningwithknives said:

Not that my experience would be a deterrent for anybody getting involved with a HOT attendant going forward. DON'T DO IT. Men are not hardwired to think rationally in these situations.

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Good point. Yes many but not all!

LI any regrets or would you do it all the same way again? Is it "better to have loved and lost love" etc? Would you advise anyone interested in a bona fide spa relationship to simply stay away and forget about it; simply just enjoy it while it lasts; or to proceed in some particular way that makes long term success more likely?

She provided a great bbbj cim with swallow. 3rd visit fantastic Anal penetration. Doggy style.

This is all very vague...would be nice to hear from SBJ...

But from Losts old reviews, I think he was a sucker romantic who fell for the fake affections these girls provide and actually thought he was in love or that she was in love with him, which can be distressing for the girls, these guys become stalkers...

From SBJ’s posts, she seems like a girl who has fun at what she does and wouldn’t date a guy who visits spas.

I saw an interesting doc on a Skype sex worker and a client, he thought they were in love and she was his girlfriend. He was in Australia or something and she was in the US living with her husband, but this guy thought he was her bf. she flew to Australia to meet him. He had told all his friends she was his girlfriend, anyway, when she arrives, the whole thing was super awkward, she really wasn’t interested in him at all.

This sounds like that type of situation.

Sybarite said:

That is quite a transition for you LI considering how deeply involved you were!

Considering how much you seemed to enjoy it at the time, I'm curious to what is happening in your life now that you feel is superior to participating in the hobby?

And why did you decide to leave? On the one hand by your own admission it was very rewarding and you have incredible memories. If it was as good as that, did you leave because you felt addicted and not in control anymore?

How certain do you feel that you won't ever return?

Being seriously involved with a hot attendant would be a dream for many. Did you find that visits to the spa weren't as exciting and rewarding once you had reached that level?

It sounds like you didn't want things to end with SBJ. Would you still be together with her now if it were possible? Do you think there's anything you could have done differently that would have extended the relationship?

Were you still visiting the spa while you were having a relationship with SBJ, or was that not cool with her? I always presumed that most girls in the business would be OK with their guys visiting the spa given the number of guys they are seeing every day in their work setting, but I've been surprised to discover most girls in the industry still want total fidelity nevertheless!

By all accounts maintaining a relationship with a girl in the business is not an easy thing to do. What is your advice to anyone who wants to make such a relationship last as long as possible?

Sorry for all the questions but I'm really interested in your perspective given everything that happened to you while you were still visiting the girls and since then... it seems like you did an awful lot and went through the full gamut of experiences during the brief time you were involved.

I'm surprised you would completely walk away and stay away forever if it was as good as it seemed for you.

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If a guy thinks dating a spa girl will be a dream because he will be ok with him seeing other girls at spas since she works at one that just shows you how totally fucking clueless these guys are about the girls mentality. Girls are not doing the job because to get off that is a lie they tell guys. Girls are doing it for money so they think that makes it ok for them. If a guy she is dating goes to the spa it is like he is double cheating on her because he is fucking other girls for pleasure and he is giving other girls his money which is the worst thing to her. Sex is all about money for these girls some of them take female viagra so they can pretend to enjoy it with their boyfriends. That is why hobbyists get the better deal because we get the sex we can get a new girl whenever we want. You do not want to date these girls but so far there is no evidence that Lost was dating SBJ anyway. Maybe he was her regular client with special benefits or her sugar daddy or something that happens all the time but a girl will act totally different for those kinds of business transactions than she would act with a guy she was dating for real so Lost might not know anything about dating a girl like SBJ for real.