I've been dropping the ball

krayjee said:

C'mon, talk is cheap, it's time for you to walk the walk and write some reviews. The time you have just spent answering to others could have used up wisely by sharing some of your experiences.

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Remember he is busy fucking or too lazy to type. I am surprised he has the time or the energy to come here. Oh I forgot, he is not that "dedicated."

FallsviewFriend said:

Often my details do not change from the already posted comments on a girl so i cant be bothered.

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Even if your experiences are similar to what's stated here, I would encourage you to post it.

One good review is often not enough to convince someone to see a lady. He could have lower expectations. He could be exaggerating or is inaccurate on the service he received. Or people here may treat him like a shill. Good reviews, validated by other good reviews, help everyone involved.

FallsviewFriend said:

I would never exaggerate or be inaccurate.

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How would we know that? You've never reviewed anyone before.

FallsviewFriend said:

If its tough finding reviews on girls or places, sometimes that's a clue to service expectations.

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Not true. It could mean people like the girl so much, they're being selfish and keeping them secret for themselves.

But I have to agree with a few people here: what's the point in making a splashy announcement on how you'll review girls only to not have a single review in the post? You're either some kind of weird attention seeker or you're starting to ask around on info of the girls and you want to give the impression that you're contributing.

What are you guys in a hurry for? We finally have potential for a lurking member to perhaps share some of his experiences and he’s getting the 3rd degree.
When you’re at the park and you’re trying to attract that chipmunk over to where you’re sitting, you quietly and slowly offer him a peanut and try to quietly coax him on over, and usually he’ll eventually come closer.
You definitely don’t stand up, wildly waving your hands, shouting, and putting the Qinshit scare into him.

I’m a big believer in good things come to those who wait..

And besides, this is an unmoderated, free forum, it’s not like you can kick him out or something.

FallsviewFriend is legit.

He was a regular on SP411.

I, on the other hand, have never hobbied in my life. All my reviews are copy and paste from other reviewers. I am an expert at doing this. No one has known until my own admission in this post.

FallsviewFriend said:

Thanks for the rep points Ursus, and I don't want to get all mushy but...
Your post regarding "Returning from Boston" was really good hitting some points where I am now looking inward towards the empty spaces i'm trying to fill.

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Fallsview,

The best thing you can do when interacting with women is to treat them the same way you would treat any man. When you treat a woman without kid gloves, you quickly see them for what they are and what they do. Then, you can interact with them more easily. And you can avoid all the pitfalls that they attempt to trick you with.

Example:

When a woman asks you to hang out with her, but she requests that you pick her up in the late afternoon because she is 'busy' in the morning, you tell her, just as you would a man, that the two of you can reschedule when she isn't 'busy' and when she can leave at a more advantageous time than during rush hour traffic.

OR

When a woman asks you to dinner and picks an out-of-the-way, over-priced, under-served restaurant because her friends are talking about how popular it is, refuse to take her and tell her that you want to eat somewhere that both of you would enjoy, instead of only pleasing her food tastes. And inform her that you expect her to pay for herself as you don't want a relationship with her if you have to pay her to spend time with you.

And if she refuses, don't sweat it. There are literally 25 other things you can do with your time than spend it with a woman who wants to dominate you and spend your money. This is exactly how women think when they are considering whether to go out on a date with a man or not.

If you meet a woman who is too short and not to your liking, tell her that she is too short and that you want to date a taller woman. Same goes for breast size or anything else that doesn't meet your minimum requirements. This is exactly how women behave towards men. Treat women the way they treat men. Treat women the same way you would treat your male friend. Don't ever treat a woman with kid gloves and you will be fine. Develop yourself and invest in yourself and make yourself happy, not a woman who is always on the lookout for something better.