How Escorts/MPAs Can Ruin Your Life

TheNewOldguy said:

Years ago I was played and never again will I fall into that trap. I still enjoy the hobby. Its like OLG.
" Know your limit and stay within it"

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What's OLG ?

Ontario Lottery and Gaming

Ursala The Douche.

To be honest, I'm probably one of the few people who mostly agrees with the original poster.
And I think the reason is because I'm in the position where I feel I'm halfway "there".

I've seen SPs a number of times per year for the last 5 years or so, so it's not a money problem yet.
However I'm noticing the urge that starts to take over. It means, the planning, the browsing, the anticipation, and the need to fulfill it.
For example when you happen to have to go visit a different country or city for work, you no longer check for historic or cool places or attractions to visit, but you start browsing for girls available.

And once i get into this "urge" mode, it doesn't stop until I've finally satisfied the need.
It can be over the course of weeks, but it becomes a driver.

I've been "lucky" that my last couple experiences have been quite disappointing (ie, girls there were not nearly as hot or "into it" as you'd expect from one).

But I'm at the point now where I realize that this is not a healthy hobby anymore, because of this sense of "needing" it until I had my hit.
(and of course after a - bad - trip you tell yourself that this was a learning experience), so reading this post definitely rang close to home.

I'm sure some of you are able to better handle, it, but this just happens to be my experience with this hobby.

I am not sure why some of the anti hobbyists even bother to spend time to visiting this site.
Look at it positively, some of you might be in this and now out or want to be out, so writing something this long to remind yourself and potentially helping others.
I really did not finish all the postings about this topic,but one thing I do want to point out, some guys felt wasting too much money on MPAs or hookers, the sad thing is in "ordinary life", lot of guys spend more. Think about the cost of getting a decent marriage, all the cost of dating one particular girl, getting a ring. A ring itself are more than what I pay for this for the last 2 years. In total, that is with close to 50 women....
Man will always paying to get into women's pants, whether long term or short term, obvious or in a subtle way.
I agree with some other points of having this hobby such as it will cause you loose interest or drive to simple things and there is always a risk to catch something and any hassles relate to that.
As adult, I think we shall all take control of our behavior and never allow anything/one to take control your own life.
I am just a regular guy work for 9-5 job and have paid for sex for the past 4 years. After all, this is just one of my many hobbies.

nathanzyc said:

I am not sure why some of the anti hobbyists even bother to spend time to visiting this site.
Look at it positively, some of you might be in this and now out or want to be out, so writing something this long to remind yourself and potentially helping others.
I really did not finish all the postings about this topic,but one thing I do want to point out, some guys felt wasting too much money on MPAs or hookers, the sad thing is in "ordinary life", lot of guys spend more. Think about the cost of getting a decent marriage, all the cost of dating one particular girl, getting a ring. A ring itself are more than what I pay for this for the last 2 years. In total, that is with close to 50 women....
Man will always paying to get into women's pants, whether long term or short term, obvious or in a subtle way.
I agree with some other points of having this hobby such as it will cause you loose interest or drive to simple things and there is always a risk to catch something and any hassles relate to that.
As adult, I think we shall all take control of our behavior and never allow anything/one to take control your own life.
I am just a regular guy work for 9-5 job and have paid for sex for the past 4 years. After all, this is just one of my many hobbies.

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If going to prostitutes is a Hobby, do you write it into your resume, do you talk about it with your family, do you show off this "hobby" to the people outside the Spa World let's say your boss or your work colleagues? Please think twice what you do with hobbies, you are usually proud of hobbies and you show off with them, like anyone does with hobbies. So "Paying for Sex" is not a hobby, because you hide it in your real life. What is your real name? Why don't anyone of you that pretend this is a hobby and something good, and you deny it is an addiction and something bad, why don't all of you put your real names here. Hey you, all the people that praise "massage with prostitutes", "paying for sex", "treating women as objects and sex toys" and you call this perversity of yours a hobby and say to other people to join you, put your real photos and real names in here. It is only a hobby after all. Why not? If it is a hobby and you like it so much and suggest to poor young people to do like you, why don't you show off who you are!
I for myself, like many others, recognize that I am a Loser Fucker, a Weak Man, and a Spiteful Human Being, if I'm going to pay for sex. I hide my identity, because I am ashamed of my Low Life level, I am not going anymore to any Spa, and I want to make some people aware and think twice before they go. The man that pays for sex is a low-esteem man. The fact that a Man spends money in a relationship with a woman outside of Spa World is qualitatively different than the fact that you "buy sex-time from an object with a time allocation. The fact that the object is a woman is irrelevant. The same way you could buy time for sex with a goose.". You didn't meet 50 women, you paid to own 50 toys for 50 half hours. Those 50 toys were not 50 women in your case, because the women that a real man meets outside of the Spa World, those women have a Choice and are not paid to make the Choice. They "50 toys" were with you only because you paid them, you cannot compare how the money are spend inside the Spa World and in the Normal World, because these are 2 different worlds that have 2 different meanings. and types or relationships You paid for FAKE meaning into the Spa World, and you got FAKE toy to fulfill your addiction for sex. You are unsure of yourself, you are unsure that you worth the attention of a good looking woman, so you have to pay for toys and you lie yourself that this is a "hobby". Real men in the Normal World meet Real Women and have natural relationship with them. Real Men are good enough to be chosen by the Real Women outside of the Spa World. You can only have "the toys", if you pay them and for as much as you pay them. You paid them to allow you to "own" them as "objects" for "half an hour". When you pay them, you become a low-life and you make them a low-life too. Did you think some of these girls were raised in love, with sacrifice and with dreams by their parents and then one day when they were 23-24-25 years old a filthy old guy, a Pimp, lied to them and started to use them and transformed them in what they are today for the Pimp's own benefit? Do you think a bit at the "toy" emotional life when you buy them like a horse or a mouse?
Ah, and please don't forget about the legal aspect. If paying for sex is a hobby, go to Ontario police and mention it. You will be fined or have a criminal report because you pay for sex.
I insist most of us readers of this site are blinded by the many Pimps that abound on this site. I noticed a way to identify pimps, that I share with all of you.
How to identify Pimps on Massage Planet:
1. They will for a while support one girl or location. After that they will migrate to another place which they opened or they make money out of.
2. They have multiple handles and they "create the illusion" of a discussion between different names backed by the same identity.
3. If you want to dig deeper, (I don't want to name names) please observe that some people write NIGHT TIME. Be aware there is a time difference between the reported time on site and the time that you write it. Make a note of the time delay and start your historical investigation.
4. Please look for pattern at 2-3-4 AM with SAME handles involved in conversations praising certain girls or location. (you will find interesting pattern with some well know names on this site).
5. Sometimes a very OBSCURE UNKNOWN new place just opened. What is the likelihood that the 3-4 handles are 3-4 people and all 3-4 people went to this obscure place that just opened 2 days ago. And what is the likelihood all of them are awake up at 3 AM and involve themselves in a conversation saying praises about the same girls and the new location. I promise all of you, if you dig a bit you'll see a few handle tied in this way, that are Pimps and some of them are only one pimp. They will always be happy about their experience as part of Spa World. They will call it hobby and so on...
Be aware that the pimps are making the money here. And please start to recognize them.
As far as "paying for sex" being a hobby. Please rethink your statement because it cost you more than money. Maybe ask your mother, father, brother or sister what do they think. Please don't blame me if all the people from the Normal World, agree with me that it is not a hobby, it is at best a bad habit! People that pay for sex are borderline sex-offenders and are considered as such by laws in Ontario. I think this is good for you to know too.

Yes, I have told my family and I have told past employers that I hobby and I even call it a hobby. When my co-workers in years past asked me what I would be doing 'this weekend', I would say to them:

I have an appt with an escort this weekend.

When Bill C36 was passed into law, I wrote a letter to my local police department and told them I would continue to hobby. I gave them my name and address and my DL number.

I tell everyone I hobby. I tell anyone who complains about it that all women are prostitutes.

My wife knows. My girlfriend knows. My parents, my sisters, my next door neighbour, my barber. I tell EVERYONE that I pay hookers for sex. My grandmother cut me out of her will because she was so disgusted about my constant hobbying activities. I don't care. I don't need her money. I can afford 3 - 4 appts each month on my own. My grandmother got her money from marrying a rich man. But, ironically, she called escorts 'whores' and considered herself to be a 'lady'.

I have invited escorts to my family functions and had them eat dinner with my family. I am very open about it. Truly, I consider every woman to be a whore. I never differentiate between a civie woman and a professional sex worker. The only bonafide difference is the volume of men they have sex with. But, the intent of sex for consideration is the same.

I told ONE GUY at work I went to see an escort at a hotel, and now the whole company knows I hobby. He's young but some day he'll need to pay too, haha.

topo112 said:

I told ONE GUY at work I went to see an escort at a hotel, and now the whole company knows I hobby. He's young but some day he'll need to pay too, haha.

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Maybe he is into granny panties

It is correct, it is not a hobby, nor is it an addiction, rather it is an obsession.

Banging whores is like getting your oil changed by a Jiffy Lube shop.

JEG said:

Maybe he is into granny panties

It is correct, it is not a hobby, nor is it an addiction, rather it is an obsession.

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It's also a necessity sometimes, when other ladies pretend having headaches, who do we call? Blue Balls Busters!!! And there we go..

JEG said:

Maybe he is into granny panties

It is correct, it is not a hobby, nor is it an addiction, rather it is an obsession.

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It's also a necessity sometimes, when other ladies pretend having headaches, who do we call? Blue Balls Busters!!! And there we go..thank goodness for sps/mpas!

Ursus said:

Yes, I have told my family and I have told past employers that I hobby and I even call it a hobby. When my co-workers in years past asked me what I would be doing 'this weekend', I would say to them:

I have an appt with an escort this weekend.

When Bill C36 was passed into law, I wrote a letter to my local police department and told them I would continue to hobby. I gave them my name and address and my DL number.

I tell everyone I hobby. I tell anyone who complains about it that all women are prostitutes.

My wife knows. My girlfriend knows. My parents, my sisters, my next door neighbour, my barber. I tell EVERYONE that I pay hookers for sex. My grandmother cut me out of her will because she was so disgusted about my constant hobbying activities. I don't care. I don't need her money. I can afford 3 - 4 appts each month on my own. My grandmother got her money from marrying a rich man. But, ironically, she called escorts 'whores' and considered herself to be a 'lady'.

I have invited escorts to my family functions and had them eat dinner with my family. I am very open about it. Truly, I consider every woman to be a whore. I never differentiate between a civie woman and a professional sex worker. The only bonafide difference is the volume of men they have sex with. But, the intent of sex for consideration is the same.

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LOL. You are so full of shit that your eyes are brown.

Not full of shit.

Escorts have eaten dinner with my family. I have told my Mom that I want to marry Asian Angela. I don' call her Asian Angela of course when speaking to my Mom, but that is who I speak of to my Mother. I still believe Angela and I will get married. I love her very much and she is the only woman I desire in my life.

Whenever I go visit my Mother, as I am leaving, she usually asks me: Will you go see Angela now? And I usually reply: Yes Mom. I am going to see Angela.

Everyone in my life knows about Angela. She is the girl that hangs on my wall as a poster and she is the girl I think about 24/7. If I could marry her today, I would. But, so hard for me because she has so many guys that also are competing for her attention. Too much demand and only 1 of her.

I only book other girls to stay level-headed. If I visited Angela as much as I wanted to, I would not be able to deal with it. So, I bang other girls to get Angela out of my system.