I have no respect for @JumpingJacj but there's an element of truth in what he's saying. Government's official statistics have revealed that more than 60% of rape and dowry cases filed in India are fake and the victims of most of these fake cases are well educated well earning boys from good families. If you are too good, even girls will take advantage of you. That is why they first demand on their matrimonial ads that the groom must have a lot of property, so that if there is a divorce, they get half of it. Now they have started a new drama of 'Marital Rape Law' which means that men will no longer be guaranteed sex under the law, which was the case earlier. So all in all, women, be it married, unmarried, randi, non-randi, girlfriend and all shades and colors are trying to exploit men for their money. If the only option you give me is "either you suffer or I suffer", I will any day prefer that you suffer. The same girls who are giving blowjobs to multiple boyfriends and getting fucked by them before marriage are the ones filing fake rape/dowry cases against their 'good boy' husbands. Girls of today are no longer the "aabla naari" you think them to be. I've seen good men lose their hard earned property to wives who were having affairs outside marriage, for no fault of the man. Let's admit it, all of sex in today's world is a transaction (when you pay a hooker you are paying retail. When you marry someone, you are paying wholesale. BUT you ARE paying in one way or the other and I don't mind it. What I DO mind is that women are trying to monopolize the market in an attempt to extract more and more out of men. They want to deny sex to their husbands, and want the right to have affairs outside marriage and STILL want to claim all the benefits of marriage (like maintenance etc). This is an unfair trading practice. If the whole market is ruined, then rape cases will increase. There must be a fairness for any market to sustain in the long run. If wives are asking the legal right to deny sex to their husband, what is the husband going to fuck? goats? why not give the husband the right to deny maintenance if the wife can deny sex? you want to give nothing but take everything) From my experience, the only boys in our friend circle who got any action from their girlfriends are the ones who made their sleazy intentions clear right from the first day. The 'good boys' roamed around paying the bills of their 'girlfriends' while they were being enjoyed for free by the bad boys. All girls are on the menu, it's your job to seize the opportunity.