Thanks for being so open. This is something Iโve known for years from all my regular relationships through the years, as well as those ladies with whom have opened up to me on this topic.
Itโs still humorous to think some guys who think that flicking their tongue fast on the pussy for 30 seconds is somehow the holy grail to a womenโs orgasm. It might be in perhaps 5% , but in most cases, every women is like a combination lock, it just takes a while to dial it in, or in a majority of cases, will not , or can not happen with a partner ever.
But!
I think you are missing an important point here, a mans mind, not his cock is his biggest sex organ. Satisfying the cock feels good but satisfying his mind can be just as important.
Honestly, I never ever, ever, ever ask the lady โdid you cum?โ If the physical evidence and experience suggests it did, then Iโm fine with it, if they actually tell afterwards, thatโs fine too.
Should you lie if the man asks you? Well, thatโs up to the lady, but honestly, seeing a happy lady also makes me happy, so when Iโm thinking whom Iโll visit next time, will I choose the lady that โlookedโ happy or the lady that just told me to lay back and let me do my job?